Unexpected challenge…Tom is having surgery in Nelspruit today…

Shortly after Di and Peter left Marloth Park on September 6, Tom told me he was having trouble with his left eye. He described seeing what looked like a crescent- or saucer-shaped shadow. Naturally, I was immediately concerned, but Tom insisted he wasn’t seeing flashing lights or experiencing any of the other symptoms he associated with a retinal detachment. He was convinced we should continue with our planned visa run to Madagascar. If we didn’t leave as planned on the 7th, we’d become undesirables with severe consequences.
Even though we went ahead with our trip, I wasn’t comfortable simply waiting to see what happened. Before we left, we made an urgent appointment with a highly rated ophthalmologist in Nelspruit for the day we returned. The doctor’s schedule was almost completely booked, but his office staff somehow managed to arrange an appointment for us only two hours after our plane landed in Nelspruit yesterday morning.
Everything fell into place. Our Monday flight from Madagascar to Johannesburg went as planned, as did our flight from Johannesburg to Nelspruit on Tuesday. We picked up the rental car at the airport and arrived for the appointment with plenty of time to spare.
The moment we walked into the huge, modern facility, we both felt we’d made the right choice. Several ophthalmologists practice in the complex, with a sophisticated hospital on the premises as well. We chose Dr. Dean van der Westhuizen, the owner and head ophthalmologist, because of his extensive experience with retinal repairs.
Of course, we had no way of knowing exactly what was wrong with Tom. We’re certainly not experts when it comes to eyes, although Tom’s family has a long history of blindness and eye disease, including retinal detachments, and he is quite familiar with potential issues.
We wanted the best medical care we could find, and everything about the facility and staff was reassuring. Tom underwent more than an hour of tests before we were finally taken into a treatment room to meet with Dr. Dean. He pulled up various images and test results on multiple screens and carefully explained what they showed.
Unfortunately, the news wasn’t what we’d hoped to hear.
Tom didn’t have a partial retinal tear, which was what we’d been hoping for. He had a full retinal detachment.
Hearing those words was frightening, especially after we’d spent the previous week in another country, wondering what was happening with his eye. In hindsight, I’m incredibly grateful that Tom’s symptoms weren’t worse and that we had already arranged to see a retinal specialist immediately upon our return.
Dr. Dean explained that Tom needs immediate surgery to repair the detached retina, and that surgery is scheduled for today at 3:00 pm.
Tom will be having a procedure called a vitrectomy. In simple terms, the surgeon removes the vitreous gel, the jelly-like substance that fills much of the inside of the eye. Removing it allows the surgeon to access the retina and, importantly, eliminates the pulling forces that can contribute to the retina remaining detached.
During the procedure, the surgeon will make several tiny openings in the white portion of the eye, called the sclera. The surgeon then inserts very small instruments to remove the vitreous gel. The surgeon can drain any fluid trapped behind the detached retina and use a laser or freezing treatment to seal retinal tears or damaged areas.
As part of the same surgery, Dr. Dean will also remove the cataract in Tom’s left eye. At some point later, Tom will need cataract surgery in his right eye as well, so this surgery will address two issues in his left eye at once.
The final step involves placing a temporary substance inside the eye, such as a sterile gas bubble or, in some circumstances, silicone oil. This acts like an internal support, pressing the retina against the back wall of the eye while it heals.
It all sounds rather remarkable when you think about it. Someone will be working inside Tom’s eye using instruments so tiny that I can hardly comprehend it, attempting to restore something as delicate as his retina.
Needless to say, we’re nervous about today.
But we’re also grateful. Grateful that Tom finally spoke up when he noticed something wasn’t right. Grateful that we didn’t simply ignore the problem while we were in Madagascar. Grateful we found an ophthalmologist in Nelspruit with extensive retinal experience. And perhaps most of all, grateful that the flights worked out perfectly and we were able to get Tom into the doctor’s office almost immediately after returning to South Africa and… getting our new 90-day visa.
Now, all we can do is trust Dr. Dean and his team and hope for the best possible outcome.
Our plans for getting back to our ordinary life in Marloth Park will have to wait a little longer. For now, the only thing that matters is getting Tom through surgery and beginning the healing process.
We certainly didn’t expect our return from Madagascar to turn into this.
But then again, after almost 14 years of world travel, we’ve learned that life doesn’t always follow the itinerary.
What the Procedure Involves
- Tiny openings: The surgeon makes micro-incisions in the white part of the eye (sclera).
- Gel removal: Specialized tiny tools suction out the cloudy or pulling vitreous gel.
- Repair: The surgeon drains fluid behind the retina and uses a laser or freezing probe to seal any retinal tears.
- Tamponade placement: Doctors inject a temporary bubble of sterile air, expanding gas, or silicone oil into the eye to press the retina back against the wall while it heals.
Recovery and Precautions
- Head positioning: Tom may need to hold his head in a specific sideways or face-down angle for several days or weeks to keep the gas bubble positioned correctly against the repair area. We will know more after today’s surgery.
- Travel restrictions: He cannot fly or travel to high altitudes while a gas bubble is present because pressure changes can cause dangerous spikes in eye pressure.
- Healing time: Vision stays very blurry at first and gradually improves over several weeks to months as the bubble naturally absorbs or is removed.
It’s close to noon now, and we’re due to arrive at the clinic at 2:30 this afternoon. First, we’ll head to the hospital to pay the bill in advance, and then we’ll go to Dr. Dean’s office, where we’ll wait to be taken into theatre for Tom’s surgery.
At this point, we have no idea how long the surgery will last, and we don’t know whether Tom will be able to drive afterward. The doctor said that if Tom feels safe and well enough to drive with one eye bandaged, he can do so. But there’s no way of knowing how he’ll feel after surgery, or how well he’ll be able to see with one eye covered.
Louise and Danie have generously offered to have Danie and Zef come to pick us up tomorrow if necessary, with Danie driving us the 90 minutes back to Marloth Park. We are incredibly grateful for their kindness and willingness to help us at a time when we really don’t know what tomorrow will bring.
I have never driven in South Africa, and certainly not on the left side of the road using my left hand to shift. Add to that the treacherous N4 highway and the frightening gorge we have to navigate, and the thought of making that drive with my poor reflexes terrifies me. I wish I could force myself to do it if necessary, but ultimately, I know that would not be safe for either of us.
So, for now, we wait and see how today rolls out. There is really no point in worrying about tomorrow until we know what happens today. Once Tom is out of surgery, we’ll have a much better idea of how he’s feeling, how well he can see, and whether driving will even be an option. Tomorrow, we see the doctor again for a follow-up, after which we can leave if all goes well.
It’s another one of those situations where we have to take things one step at a time. Right now, all I want is for Tom to get through the surgery safely and for everything to go as planned. After that, we’ll figure out the rest. I will post again at the first opportunity with updates.
Be well.
Photo from ten years ago today, September 16, 2016:

Hope and pray all is well with Toms surgery. Sending lots of love. Chuck & Lea Ann
Thank you both! He just went in for the surgery. Should be done in 3 hours. Hope you both are doing well.
Much love,
Jess & Tom