There has never been a time in my life when I have particularly cared about getting manicures and pedicures. I was always content taking care of my own fingernails and toenails, doing so at my convenience, in my own space, without the need to schedule an appointment or sit in a salon chair. Back in the 1970s, when acrylic nails became all the rage, I did join the trend and treated myself to a monthly manicure. It felt like a small indulgence at the time, something fun and social, but even then, pedicures never quite appealed to me.
Part of it was simple practicality. My feet are incredibly ticklish, and the idea of someone working on them while I tried to sit still always made me uneasy. Over the years, I also couldn’t justify the cost. It seemed unnecessary to spend money on something I could easily manage myself at home. For decades, that mindset worked just fine.
As the years passed, however, I began to notice that what had once been easy was no longer quite so simple. Bending, reaching, and maintaining the same level of care took more effort than it used to. At the same time, I became more aware of how important proper foot care is as we age. It is not just about appearance. It is about comfort, mobility, and overall health.
Several years ago, our friend Louise mentioned Imbewu Spa here in Marloth Park. They offer a range of spa services, including facials, massages, and more. At the time, I was curious but still somewhat hesitant. Eventually, I decided to make an appointment for a pedicure, thinking I would at least give it a try. That decision turned out to be one of those small but meaningful changes that improve everyday life.
That is when I met Patience. From the moment I walked into the quaint and charming spa, I felt at ease. Patience has a warm, gentle nature that immediately puts me at ease. My first pedicure with her completely changed my perspective. Not only did my feet feel better than they had in years, but the experience itself was enjoyable in a way I had never expected.
Since then, it has become a monthly ritual. I look forward to having my toenails polished and my feet properly cared for, but just as much, I look forward to the time spent chatting and laughing with Patience. It has become more than a service. It is a connection, a moment of shared stories and easy conversation that adds a special layer to the experience.
In the United States, when I have truly needed a pedicure, the cost has ranged from US $65 to US $85. Each time, I found myself hesitating, weighing the expense against the need. Occasionally, I would go ahead and do it, but it never felt quite the same. Here, with Patience, the cost is so reasonable, and the value goes far beyond the price. At Zar 300, US $18.21, it feels like a gift I can give myself without a second thought.
This morning at 10:00, I had my first pedicure with Patience since we returned to Marloth Park eight days ago. Sitting there once again, I was reminded of how much I had missed it. It felt familiar, comforting, and quietly restorative.
Back at the house, I found myself looking forward to two simple things. The first was getting today’s post uploaded, settling into the familiar pace of writing again. The second was returning to my exercises, which I only resumed this week, now that the coughing has subsided and the sinus infection has finally cleared.
There is something deeply satisfying about feeling healthy again. It allows me to fully appreciate this life we are living here in the bush. Each day offers its own small joys, from the quiet mornings to the familiar routines that ground me. As I sat there reflecting, I realized just how many reasons I have to be grateful. There are so many that I could never possibly count them all, including these special times with Patience at Imbewe Spa.
Be well.
Photo from ten years ago today, June 19, 2016:
