Today’s photos (except the above main photo) are from this date in 2015 while living in the village of Savusavu, Vanua Levu, Fiji as shown here.
One would think that with over 3000 posts, it would be easy to find photos to repeat that could be interesting and fresh to our new and long term readers. But, each morning as I scroll through the previous seven, of eight years, it’s often challenging to find any that I find appealing.
|A few boats docked at the pier in Savusavu, Fiji.|
They must be photos from the exact day and month to maintain our preferred continuity with only the year they were published being different. We’ll see how it goes if and when a year passes and we have to start all over again. Good grief! That one-year event could possibly be in a mere four months.
Technically, we are no longer in a mandated lockdown. We are free to leave the hotel, but they prefer we stay here to avoid returning with a case of the virus. That’s why the employees still sleep here and can’t leave during their month’s long shifts. Although the US appears to have more cases of COVID-19, we suspect there are more cases in India than in the US due to a lack of testing, rampant crowding, and poverty.
|This boat navigates to the pearl beds.|
Each time we look out of the only window at the end of a long corridor where we can see people, they are in groups and most aren’t wearing masks. If we were to go outside on foot, we’d be caught up in those crowds on the streets. The above main photo was taken during the five-day Diwali celebrations in the past few days. We can imagine how many new cases of the virus will result from these crowds.
Although the above photo is during Diwali this size of crowds is typical on any day in Mumbai and other cities in India. We experienced it first hand while touring India eight/nine months ago. Why would we dare to go outside if we’re committed to avoiding becoming infected, possibly ending up on a cot in a parking lot? No thank you.
|This long pier leads the Fiji Pearls boat where tourists can visit the pearl beds after which tourists typically purchase pearl jewelry.|
I can’t tell you how many people have suggested we go sightseeing while we’re in Mumbai instead of staying stuck in this room. We appreciate their concern for our mental health, but at this point in time, our physical health is of the utmost importance. Our mental health is surprisingly in good order.
Yesterday, again we laughed out loud about being in this hotel room for today’s 238 days, Tom reminded me of how I don’t like to fight. In the past, before COVID-19, when he became “overly grumpy” I’d leave the room. I’m always willing to discuss issues, but I am not interested in having a pointless argument.
|The heavy rains and cloud-covered sky prevented us from much sightseeing.|
As far as I’m concerned, those who say fighting is healthy are kidding themselves. Impassioned discussion is quite acceptable to me, but nasty fighting is not. Tom, on the other hand, seems to enjoy a hearty row with certain expletives flying through the air. I don’t get this, so when he’d start, I’d leave the room. No one will continue to fight when no one is within earshot to suffer the consequences of verbal toxicity.
I’d leave the room long enough for him to cool down, (not very long) and then proceed to have a problem solving issue-handling mature discussion. Well, guess what? There’s no other room for me to hide in right now. The bathroom isn’t far enough away. Plus, I don’t want to stand in the bathroom for 20 or 30 minutes.
|Steam escapes from underground hot springs in this area near the village.|
So, under these circumstances, what have we done? Much to my surprise and delight, he rarely gets his “hair in a bundle.” Perhaps, he’s aware of my dilemma and exercises some self-control. On a few rare occasions, when he’s snapped (not necessarily at me), I simply ignore him and don’t respond, or go out the door for my upcoming walk.
I understand we each have our own ways of coping in difficult times. This is one of those times. Somehow, we’re managing to get through this period unscathed by toxic vitriol between us and hopefully will continue on this path for the duration and, of course in hopefully in less stressful times in the future.
When we have more “rooms” he can be “overly grumpy” on occasion.
Photo from one year ago today, November 16, 2019:
|Out to brunch with Tom’s family one year ago today. From left to right beginning at Jacoby, Tom’s grandnephew; Vincent, our grandson; Kathy, Tom’s niece, daughter of brother Jerome to her left; then Patty, Tom’s sister at the right end of the table, then Tammy, Tom’s daughter: Tracy, Tammy’s partner; Colleen, Tom’s sister and her husband Gene. Tom and I were seated and the end of the table and not seen in the photo. For more, please click here.|