Day 21…Minnesota family visit…Attended another fantastic graduation party….Two days and counting…

Heather and her daughter, Megan at the graduation party.

While I was still coughing quite a bit on Friday, I decided to stay home rather than join Tom for the weekly gathering at Billy’s Bar and Grill in Anoka. These get-togethers mean a lot, especially with Tom being the youngest of the remaining six siblings, and I never want to miss an opportunity to be part of those moments. But as I sat there thinking about it, I couldn’t shake the feeling that my lingering cough might make his older sisters and brother-in-law uncomfortable. Even though it has been over a month since we first got sick and I am fairly certain I am no longer contagious, it simply felt like the considerate choice to stay behind.

So instead, I settled in for a quiet evening on my own. There was something oddly comforting about it. I ordered dinner through Grubhub, taking advantage of the no-delivery-fee benefit with Amazon Prime, and treated myself to a Chipotle beef-and-chicken bowl. It felt indulgent in the best possible way. I streamed a few movies, the kind you can kind of watch while resting, and spent some time chatting with my sister Julie. Before I knew it, the evening had slipped by, and soon Tom was back, full of stories from the night.

Heather’s other children (left rear): Andi, Hannah, and Doug; Heather and Greg (rear center); and other family members at the grad party.

Yesterday brought a complete change of pace as we made the 45-minute drive to Shoreview for Megan’s graduation party. Megan is Heather’s daughter, and it was such a joy to be included in such a special celebration. The party was wonderful, full of warmth, laughter, and that unmistakable feeling of pride that surrounds a milestone like this. We had the chance to meet more of Heather’s family and friends, which made the day feel even richer.

It was also so special to spend time again with Greg and two of our grandchildren, Miles and Maisie, along with Maisie’s boyfriend, Dakota. Madighan had to work and couldn’t join us. I found myself looking at them and thinking how quickly everything has changed. Miles will soon be heading off to the University of Minnesota, moving into the dorms and beginning this exciting new chapter. Maisie is already out on her own, with an apartment near the farm where she works and close to Dakota. Madighan is living with her mom, Camille, finding her own way as well. She graduates in 2028, and of course, we will be here for that! It is one of those moments where you pause and realize that your children are now raising independent young adults, and the life you once knew has gently shifted into something new. Greg is on the brink of becoming an empty nester, and it all seems to have happened in the blink of an eye.

This morning, I am looking forward to a visit from my dear friend Chere, where we’ll meet in the hotel’s dining room. These one-on-one conversations have always meant so much to me. At the same time, Tom has headed off to the laundromat in Chanhassen. I offered to go along, after I met with Chere, but he assured me he would be just fine handling it on his own. It will give him a few hours to take care of things, and me a chance to sit, sip my coffee, and enjoy Chere’s company.

More friends at Megan’s graduation party.

Later today, we will begin packing, which we’ll likely finish tomorrow. In the late afternoon, we are heading over to TJ and Sarah’s home for a barbecue with Tammy, Tracy, and Vincent. It feels like these last few days are filled with meaningful goodbyes and one more chance to be together before we head off again.

Somewhere in the next couple of days, we will also see Greg again after he and Heather return from Chicago, where they are attending Hannah’s graduation. It has been a whirlwind for them, one celebration after another, yet they have still found the time to be with us during our visit. That means more than words can say, especially after we were under the weather and missed time with all of them.

Tonight, we will likely keep things simple once again, ordering dinner to go and spending a quiet evening together. After everything, it feels good to slow down, to reflect, and to appreciate these moments as they come.

Be well.

Photo from ten years ago today, June 7, 2016:

No photos were posted on this date due to WiFi issues in Bali.

Day 16…Minnesota family visit…Great time at Miles’ graduation party…

Our boy Miles. We are so proud of him.

It was a cold, rainy, and windy day, the kind that usually sends people retreating indoors, wrapping themselves in blankets, and canceling plans. But not this time. Not for Miles. Not for this milestone. Nearly one hundred invitees showed up, jackets zipped, hoods pulled tight, all determined to celebrate this moment with him. Something was comforting in that, a reminder that even the most uninviting weather cannot dampen the importance of family, connection, and shared joy.

Son Greg and granddaughter Madighan. For some odd reason, I can’t find the photos I took of Maisie Heather and Megan. We will add their photos next time we get together.

The tables were filled with an abundance of food that seemed to stretch endlessly. There were trays of meats and cheeses, salads, sandwiches, bowls of snacks, and desserts that looked as though they had been made with care and pride. Tom was in his own version of heaven. I watched him with a smile as he indulged in treats he so often avoids in our day-to-day lives. The highlight for him, without question, was the homemade strawberry shortcake prepared by our ex-daughter-in-law, Camille. Alongside that were potato chips and sweet snacks that he enjoyed without hesitation. For me, I stayed simple, picking at the meats and cheeses, content in my own way. It was hard resisting that cake, but I didn’t take a bite.

Miles and Madighan.

By the time we made our way back to the hotel close to 5:00 pm, neither of us had any desire for another bite of food. It was one of those rare and satisfying moments when you feel finished, not deprived, not overthinking, just done. We didn’t eat another morsel for the rest of the evening, and it felt perfectly fine.

A photo of Miles, me, and Greg at a Minnesota Twins ballgame a few years ago.

What made the day truly special, though, was being surrounded by family. Seeing our son Greg again always brings a sense of grounding, and it was lovely to spend time with his girlfriend, Heather, and her daughter, Megan, whose graduation party we’ll attend next Sunday. And then there were our three grandchildren, Maisie, Miles, and Madighan, each one growing into their own lives in ways that make us proud. They sat with us at times, talking easily and sharing pieces of their lives, while also moving in and out of the party’s busy energy.

This was only a small portion of the food.

One of the most fascinating touches of the day was the setup for what they called “dirty sodas.” I had heard of them in passing, but this was my first time seeing such an elaborate display. There were cans of soda lined up on ice, along with flavored syrups and cream, all ready to be mixed and customized. It seemed to be the latest trend among the younger crowd, and they embraced it with enthusiasm. We chose not to try one, content to observe from the sidelines, but it was fun to watch their excitement as they created their own combinations.

For much of the party, Miles and his friends were immersed in lawn games, laughing and competing in that easy way young people do. The adults, on the other hand, gathered in small groups, conversations weaving in and out as stories were shared and connections renewed. Every so often, Miles would pause, step away from his friends, and come over to acknowledge us. Those small gestures meant more than he probably realizes.

The strawberry shortcake was the hardest item for me to resist, but I didn’t take so much as a taste.

Madighan and Maisie spent time sitting with us, chatting along with Greg, Heather, and Megan. It struck me how responsible all three grandchildren have become. Each of them has a job, has purchased their own car, and takes care of their own insurance. There is something deeply reassuring in seeing that level of independence at their age. Their futures look bright, and that thought stayed with me long after we left.

The drinks and supplies for making “dirty sodas.”

It was also a pleasure to catch up with Camille and hear about how well she is doing. Life moves forward in unexpected ways, but there was a genuine ease in our conversation, a sense that time has softened everything into something manageable and kind.

Daughter-in-law Camille and Tom.

By the time we returned to the hotel, the contrast between the cold outdoors and the warmth inside felt especially comforting. We changed into more comfortable clothes and settled in for a quiet evening, watching Survivor, Season 50. After the damp air and hours of conversation, my coughing continued, lingering from this illness that refuses to let go fully. Being warm and still brought a sense of relief.

It had been a full day, in every sense of the word. A day of family, of small indulgences, of laughter, and of reflection. That is enough for now. We will be back.

Be well.

Photo from ten years ago today, June 1, 2016:

Low tide at the beach on a cloudy day in Bali. For more photos, please click here.

Day 15…Minnesota family visit…Today is Miles’ graduation party!…We will be there!…

For the first time since we arrived in Minnesota fifteen days ago, we are going to see family with many more get-togethers over the upcoming week. That simple sentence carries more weight than I expected. It feels like stepping out of a long, dim tunnel into a bit of light. Today is our grandson Miles’ graduation party at Lake Waconia, a 35-minute drive, and despite everything our bodies have been through, we are going.

Yesterday, the idea of getting dressed in anything other than yoga pants, a long-sleeved T-shirt, and Tom’s thick white socks felt almost unreasonable. Those clothes have become my uniform, my cocoon during weeks of coughing, fatigue, and restless nights. But I made a small decision. I laid out my clothes last night. A simple outfit. Comfortable shoes. A few pieces of jewelry that felt like a nod to the person I was before all of this. Looking at them, I realized it might not be so hard after all.

This morning, I woke abruptly after another broken night. The kind filled with strange dreams that dissolve the moment you open your eyes, interrupted again and again by coughing fits that leave your chest aching. Still, I didn’t linger. I swung my legs out of bed with more determination than strength and decided I would move forward with purpose. I want to greet this day with something that resembles energy, even if it is borrowed.

I am aware that what I feel inside and how I appear on the outside may not fully align. For weeks now, my body has felt heavy, as though each limb requires negotiation. I have grown used to moving slowly, carefully, conserving what little energy I have. But today, I do not want to walk into Miles’ party looking like someone who has been defeated. I want to show up as his grandmother, proud, present, and there to celebrate him.

Before getting sick, I had found such joy in movement again. After months of regular exercise, I was finally walking with ease and confidence. That memory feels distant now. A month of illness has changed everything. My legs feel like lead after so much time spent resting. Pneumonia has a way of humbling you. It reduces life to the most basic act of breathing, and even that can feel like work.

I remind myself that this is temporary. Once the coughing finally fades, I will begin again. Slowly, patiently. I imagine that moment somewhere ahead, perhaps when we arrive in Marloth Park in South Africa on June 11. I picture the warmth, the open space, the sense of starting fresh. It gives me something to hold onto.

Tom is improving, which is a relief, though he is far from himself. He tires easily and often needs to nap. I can see the frustration in him, the longing to feel normal again. We both carry that same wish. To wake up without heaviness. To move through a day without calculating our energy. To be.

Today’s party begins at noon and will go until four. A manageable window, we tell ourselves. We will pace it, take breaks if needed, and listen to our bodies. By five, we should be back at the hotel, hopefully with full hearts and just enough energy left to reflect on the day.

There is something comforting in knowing that even in the middle of illness, life continues to offer moments worth showing up for. Today is one of those moments. And we are going today, as well as all the other family events we have planned this upcoming week.

Be well.

Photo from ten years ago today, May 31, 2016:

Buffaloes were lining up for their turn at the buffalo races in Bali. For more photos, please click here.

Summer Airline Deals in the USA…

When I stumbled across this article this morning, I felt it was imperative to share it with our readers today, rather than focusing on family events, while we’re here in Minnesota. There is plenty of time to continue to share what we’re doing with our family and friends.

From Travel + Leisure online magazine, seen here:

This Budget Airline’s ‘All-you-can-fly’ Summer Pass Is On Sale for $399—What to Know

Get unlimited flights for the entire summer while only paying taxes and fees. By Michael Cappetta Published on May 15, 2025

  • Frontier Airlines has officially started sales of its annual and summer “All-You-Can-Fly ” pass.
  • The pass provides unlimited flights on the discount carrier. 
  • Travelers are responsible for paying taxes and fees. 

The ultimate summer vacation just got cheaper.

Frontier Airlines announced the return of its GoWild! All-You-Can-Fly Annual Pass and Summer Pass, and both passes are now on sale. The subscription provides access to unlimited flights on the discount carrier with no extra charge for airfare. However, passengers are responsible for paying the taxes, fees, and a $0.01 processing fee for each segment of the booking.

The annual subscription pass has become popular with spontaneous and frequent fliers who value a variety of low-cost travel adventures.

“Turn your flexibility into unlimited flights,” Frontier shares about the pass on its website.

The annual pass is valid from May 1, 2025, through April 30, 2026, at a rate of $599 annually. The summer pass is valid from May 1, 2025, through Sept. 30, 2025, at a rate of $399.

For travelers looking to try the service, Frontier is offering a limited-time monthly pass for $99 the first month and $149 thereafter. All plans automatically renew, so travelers should carefully review the terms, conditions, and renewal dates before subscribing. Travelers can purchase the pass on the Frontier website at flyfrontier.com/deals/gowild-pass.

While the pass can be helpful for flexible travelers, there are certain restrictions, such as blackout dates. For the remainder of the 2025 calendar year, for example, blackout dates include: May 22-23, 26; June 22, 26-29; July 3-7; Aug. 28-29; Sept. 1. Oct. 9-10, 12-13; Nov. 25, 26, 29-30; Dec. 1, 20-23, 26-31. Popular holidays such as Memorial Day, Fourth of July, Thanksgiving, and New Year’s Eve are excluded from the program.

The fares also do not include seat assignment, carry-on suitcase, or checked luggage, which means the cost could grow if travelers select these extras.

The budget carrier also notes on its website that both the annual pass and seasonal pass “will automatically renew for successive one-year terms unless you cancel.” For potential destinations, Frontier has been on the move, adding new routes that travelers could visit. The airline has expanded operations from Atlanta Hartsfield-Jackson International Airport (ATL) with service to San Pedro Sula, Honduras (SAP) and Aruba (AUA).”

Yesterday, we attended granddaughter Maisie’s graduation party at her mom, Camille’s, home. The house was filled with friends and family members intent on celebrating Maisie’s graduation from Chanhassen High School. The decorations, the food, and the photos of Maisies scattered throughout the house were delightful and made grandpa and grandma proud.

Photo of our granddaughter, cheerleader Maisie, the graduate.

We had an excellent time at the party that started at noon and ended at 4:00 pm. However, we lingered until after 5:00 pm and then headed back to our hotel. We’d had plenty to eat from the fantastic array of foods and didn’t have dinner. Instead, we parked ourselves in front of the TV while we streamed a few shows on Netflix.

By 10:00 pm, I was ready for bed and ended up having a good night’s sleep. Soon, at 10:30 am, we’re leaving to meet daughter Tammy and family for brunch at Dolittle’s, where, last week, we’ve already enjoyed a lovely dinner for Greg’s girlfriend Heather’s birthday.

The rest of our day is free, but we’ll see how it rolls out after brunch with Tammy’s family.

We’ll be back with more.

Be well.

Photo from ten years ago today, June 1, 2015:

We are on the bridge overlooking the sea in French Polynesia. For more photos, please click here.

Part 2, Graduation party last night…What is a “Walking Taco?”…30 food trends from the past decade…

Vincent and his two moms, Tracy on the left and Tammy on the right were at Vincent’s graduation party last night at a regional park.

Everyone enjoyed last night’s party for Vincent’s graduation. The food was plentiful, delicious, and catered by “We Cater to You,” a local company that may be found here at this site.

They did an excellent job preparing (and cleaning up) beautifully presented food that included the typical taco fixings, bags of chips, a fruit salad, and a colorful green salad with blackberries that I topped with the chicken taco meat, which was perfect for me.

There were party gifts, root beer on tap, canned beer for the adults, and plenty of added decor to highlight the graduation theme. Most likely, about 60 people joined in on the festivities, including several Lyman family members, Vincent’s birth dad and family, and other family friends.

This is a “walking taco” in a large-sized Frito bag. Everyone seemed to enjoy them.

Minnesota’s notorious barrage of mosquitos attacked me a few times, but when I didn’t have to be concerned about malaria, I didn’t think about it much. I wore socks to protect my vulnerable ankles, long pants, and a shirt with sleeves. Alas, the nasty little buggers bit my hands, my only exposed skin.

We arrived promptly at 5:00 and headed out around 8:30 to return to our hotel to spend the remainder of the evening relaxing before retiring for the night. I awoke at 5:00 am to the sound of hotel room doors slamming as guests were checking out, stayed awake for about an hour, and finally drifted off again, somehow managing to sleep through a lot more noise in the corridor, which continues now as I write here.

Getting back to food trends from the past decade, here are the remaining items from the story we started yesterday for Part 2:

Latte art made a splash as coffee culture intensified. Latte art, or art made using espresso, steamed milk, and frothed milk to create images in foam, took over social media for a spell in the mid-2010s. 

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Latte art. Not our photo.

Hard seltzer will go down as one of the biggest trends of the 2010s, with consumers flocking to the lower-calorie boozy beverage. The summer of 2019 was the summer of hard seltzer. The boozy beverage was so beloved that there was even a national shortage of White Claw, the most popular hard seltzer brand. 

The fast-casual explosion hit its stride with chains such as Sweetgreen and Shake Shack. Fast-casual restaurants lie somewhere between fast-food and full-service, meaning they usually don’t offer table service with a waitstaff but are generally regarded as having higher quality food than the average fast-food restaurant. 

Soylent and other meal replacement shakes got a face-lift in the late 2010s. With its modern, minimalist branding and marketing, Soylent caters to a younger crowd looking for quick, on-the-go meals. 

Though they’ve been around for hundreds of years, macarons were popularized in the States in the 2010s. The French cookies use whisked egg whites and sugar to make meringue, the main ingredient in macarons. 

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Macaroons are still popular. Not our photo.

Food trucks have become hotbeds for chefs who might not have the resources to open a brick-and-mortar kitchen. The mobility of a truck allows entrepreneurs to reach a large audience and announce their location on various social media platforms. 

Kale, a nutritious leafy green, became a popular smoothie on social media. Leafy green became so popular that Beyoncé was even seen wearing a “kale” sweatshirt stylized in the collegiate format of Yale University. 

Edible gold leaf has become a widespread decoration for fine-dining dishes. From a $2,000 gold-covered pizza in Manhattan to an Australian burger made with 24-karat buns, the fancy ingredient has become an over-the-top addition to various foods. 

Natural Wine has both divided the wine community and spurred various young enthusiasts. Natural wine, a broad term for wines produced with minimal intervention from the winemaker, has become popular in recent years. 

Juicing fruits and vegetables has become a popular trend in the wellness scene. Juicing vegetables, including celery, carrots, and beets, made raw vegetable consumption cool and easy. However, home juicing has lost a bit of steam as many fast-casual restaurants and grocery stores have started offering pre-juiced vegetables in bottles. 

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A juicing machine churns out some kiwi-lemon juice. Shutterstock. Not our photo.

Cold brew coffee is everywhere nowadays, as iced coffee lovers flock to the highly caffeinated coffee beverage. Cold brew is made by steeping ground coffee with highly caffeinated, creating a coffee “concentrate” that often has more caffeine than your average cup of joe. 

Negronis made a comeback as cocktail lovers have embraced the bitterness of various Italian liqueurs. The Negroni is made with gin, vermouth, and the bitter Italian liqueur Campari. It’s also the staple cocktail of the world’s best bar of 2019

Though smoked and cured meats never go out of style, charcuterie boards dominated the 2010s. Charcuterie boards often feature a selection of smoked or cured meats, various cheeses, and a sweet component — whether it be dried or fresh fruit, honey, or sweet vegetables. 

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Charcuterie board. Not our photo.

Session beers, or beers brewed to have a lower alcohol content, are becoming popular for their dri. Low-ABV session beers are meant to be enjoyed in larger quantities. The lower alcohol percentage allows people to drink more of them in a “session” without getting too intoxicated. 

Mocktails and nonalcoholic beers, such as Heineken’s 0.0, also made a sober splash in the 2010s, as more consumers sober-curious” or give up booze altogether. Mocktail bars are also opening nationwide to cater to customers looking for a way to socialize at bars without alcohol.

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Founder’s All Day IPA, a low-ABV session beer. Founders. Not our photo.

Fermenting foods made a significant impact on small and large restaurants. Fermenting food, or allowing bacteria and yeast to break down carbs to preserve food, became a huge trend in the 2010s as fine dining establishments and mom-and-pop locations went into practice. The Noma Guide to Fermentation, a guide to fermenting pretty much everything, was also released by the team at Noma

Farm-to-table restaurants, or those aiming to shorten the distance between ingredients’ sources and the restaurant, were popular. Though its actual meaning is often hard to define, farm-to-table became a popular phrase in the 2010s as consumers tried to eat more locally-grown, organic products.

Zero-waste cooking has become a trend as professional chefs and home cooks try to lower their carbon footprints. Cooking with as little waste as possible — leftover food or plastic packaging — has become a goal for many restaurants as the industry becomes increasingly conscious of its environmental impact.”

Thanks to Business Insider for this great article, which can be found here.

Thanks to Tammy and Tracy for Vincent’s fantastic grad party!

Be well.

Photo from ten years ago today, June 8, 2014:

A long set of stairs, without handrails, up a steep hill in Madeira. For more photos, please click here.