It’s hard to believe how much time I spend each month fixing errors on credit cards, health insurance bills, purchases, and other financial activities. As a detail-oriented individual, I carefully check every bill or statement we receive, and if I find something wrong, I call immediately to resolve the issue.
It’s either a computer-generated issue or, at other times, a result of human error. Yes, occasionally, it can be my error or assumption that something is wrong when it isn’t. But my rationale is that in the long run, correcting my mistakes and humbly apologizing for my errors is better than ignoring those that aren’t mine.
Whether it’s an extra charge on a bank account, an unknown charge on a credit card, or a medical bill stating I need to pay when my health insurance covers the fees, these issues must all be addressed. If I bothered to keep track of every error correction, it could add up to hundreds, if not thousands, of dollars each year.
Another time-consuming issue is ordering a product that doesn’t arrive on time, is billed twice, or receiving a package in someone else’s name. This happens several times a year. Based on the fact that everything I buy is online. I’d go to Target or a pharmacy for many items in my old life. I don’t do that now, especially when traveling outside the US. There are no Target stores or well-stocked pharmacies, like Walgreens or CVS, in many countries.
When we prepare to travel to Africa, for example, I stock up on certain items I know I won’t be able to purchase there, such as my favorite cosmetic items. Yes, I use cosmetic items and always have and always will. That’s just me, and I doubt I will change anytime soon.
Once, a reader wrote to me suggesting I stop using cosmetics, have a short hairdo, and stop polishing my toes and doing my nails. Go “au natural,” she wrote. That may be fine for many, but not for me. Every morning, I shower and dress like I’m getting ready to go out.
That’s just me; I am sure many can relate while others cannot. I appreciate everyone’s viewpoint based on their personal choices. But it makes us unique when we can choose what suits us as individuals.
Regarding the reader’s comment above, I thanked her for taking the time to write, but I explained what I’ve described here today. We each have the right to choose what makes us feel our best. For the same reason, I eat healthy and make every effort to exercise to maintain health and fitness to the best of my ability.
There’s no magic formula that works for everyone. The wonder of humanity is our unique demeanor, presentation, and viewpoints on many topics. We don’t all have to agree. Those factors, alone or combined, attract us to other people, enabling us to connect, learn more, and enhance relationships with those we know and love and those we have yet to know.
We are interested in meeting new people as we travel the world who exude warmth, a heartfelt smile, and an inviting demeanor, regardless of their style or personal taste. That’s the true magic of it all.
Be well.
Photo from ten years ago today, November 16, 2014:
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Hi Jess,
Totally with you on your grooming standards.
Having been in hairdressing at age 15 until 30 we were expected to maintain a standard of hair, makeup and nails. I’ve continued to do this even if I’m not going out.
It makes you feel good so continue ❤️
Kim. I imagined you’d be the same way, always striving for a put together look. You are as lovely as ever.
Hugs,
Jess