As I wrote today’s post starting with the headline, I smiled. “A personal story?” All of our stories are personal in one way or another. Today is no exception.
At times, people ask, “How do you feel comfortable revealing so much of your personal life online?”
My answer is always the same, “One of the reasons people all over the world read our posts is due to this very fact. If this was just a travel blog with photos of tourist locations, hotels, and restaurant reviews, we wouldn’t have kept the interest of readers for so many years.”
It’s the raw reality of our daily lives that inspires us to keep writing each day, that so easily comes from the heart, enabling my fingers to fly across the keyboard with barely a moment of concentration or forethought. “Writer’s block” doesn’t dwell herein.
|Actually, this is the only health food store, Healthy Hut, within a half-hour drive of our holiday home in Kauai, Hawaii. The inventory is ripe with fresh, locally grown organic produce, grass-fed meats, free-range chickens and eggs and food and health supplies one would find in a much larger location in a big city. Pricey? Yep! For the full story from five years ago today, please click here.|
Yes, many of our prior posts consisted of suggesting where to go and what to see in various parts of the world. We love sharing those tidbits of information with associated photos and links.
Certainly, most of our readers can relate to our isolation when you, too, are literally trapped in your homes, facing the complexity of myriad problems, which include emotional, physical and financial concerns.
|I was surprised to find many of the products I needed to make my recently posted recipe for Low Carb High Fat Protein Bars, my new favorite recipe. Click this link if you missed the recipe.|
In many ways, it’s easier for us. Sure, I’d like to be able to cook a meal, have a glass of wine, do laundry and stay busy around the house. But, we have little responsibility other than to stay active, eat two meals a day and pay for our hotel and dinners (breakfast is included).
Financially, this lockdown doesn’t impact us one way or another. We’d be paying rent for a holiday home, groceries, supplies and the occasional dinner out. Our hotel bill here is no more than we’d have paid for a holiday home and the dinners, not much more than we’d have paid for groceries and dining out.
But, for those of you out of work as you continue to incur household and living expenses, this dreadful time can only be worrisome and frightening, along with fears about the virus impacting your family and friends. Our hearts go out to all of you.
Of course, we worry about our family and friends, but based on frequent communication it seems everyone is hunkered down to the best of their ability, wearing masks, social distancing and frequently washing their hands.
Although our situation is by no means not dire at this point, we aren’t exempt from worry and concern. My dear sister Susan, who lives in Las Vegas, Nevada who’s been bedridden for many years with a variety of serious medical conditions, took an awful fall a few days ago, one of many she’s experienced over the years.
|Seeing pumpkins and squash reminds us of crisp, cool fall in Minnesota as I stood admiring this at a comfortable 82 degrees.|
She is now is a coronavirus free hospital after having many tests that determined she has been suffering numerous small strokes, causing her to fall many times over the years, often incurring brain bleeds and injuries. In addition, she has COPD, congestive heart failure and severe chronic pain syndrome.
For the past nine months, she has been living in a lovely assisted living facility in Las Vegas, which, to date, hasn’t had any cases of COVID-19. I spent many delightful afternoons with her when we stayed in Nevada in November 2019.
I baked a few of her favorite desserts (from our childhood) at son Richard’s house in Henderson and brought them to her when I visited each day. We laughed and told stories while cherishing every moment together. On December 9th, when we left Nevada it was hard to say goodbye, not certain we’d ever be together again.
Based on US Medicare requirements when a patient/senior is hospitalized and still a bit unstable, they require the patient to go to the rehabilitation center before they can return to their former living arrangements.
With all the news of COVID-19 impacting rehab and nursing facilities, my dear sister is terrified of being forced to go to one of these facilities before she can return to her assisted living facility where she’s been content and comfortable.
|The shelves were packed with beauty products, snacks and treat, none of which we purchase.|
My sister Julie, my niece Kely, Susan’s adult daughter, both of whom live in California, and I, have been on the phone trying to attend to her care the best way we can. No visitors are allowed in the hospital to avoid the risk of spreading the virus. She was injured during the fall and is in considerable pain along with the chronic discomfort of her other medical conditions. This is heartbreaking.
We are trying to avoid the requirement of her going to the rehab facility which emotionally would be devastating for her. Although we are grateful she doesn’t have the virus, if she did become infected she wouldn’t survive.
I am sure many of you are experiencing similar situations throughout the world with family members not only alone in the hospital without the possibility of visitors, but also, other medical conditions that require care and treatment during this difficult time.
These are tough times for all of us in our own ways. We pray for the safety and well-being for ourselves, and all of our loved ones wherever they may be. May this devastation soon end.
Photo from one year ago today, April 7, 2019:
|This morning, this Hornbill stood on the top of the door to let Tom know it was time to eat. Tom came running outdoors to comply with his fervent request. For more photos, please click here.|