It had been almost three weeks since we went out for dinner after I’d been sick for 2½ weeks. It feels great to be back to myself exercising again, feeling well, and finally able to go out to dinner last night at the Speakeasy.
Although we spent every day and evening together, there’s something magical about dressing up a little and getting out of our usual environment. Without any distractions from podcasts, TV news, and streaming, we had each other’s undivided attention and, surprisingly, found ourselves catching up as if we had been apart.
It’s not as if we don’t chat all day and evening. We frequently engage in conversation and with little snippets throughout the day. But based on our together-all-the-time lifestyle, we often give one another “space” to engage in activities during the day that we each enjoy on our own.
For Tom, this may be updating Ancestry, watching sports, listening to podcasts, and researching topics he enjoys, which may not appeal to me. Once I finish the daily posts, I exercise, prepare the evening meals, and work on financial matters. Before I know it, the day is more than half over. In the evenings, we spend our time together streaming movies and TV series we mutually enjoy. We just finished a new favorite on Netflix, the astounding “Shogun,” a memorable series.
Lately, I’ve been awakening at 3:00 am, staying awake for an hour or two, and then falling back to sleep for a total of eight or more hours. I used to get by with six or seven hours at most, but in the past few years, I’ve found I function better with eight hours. Thus, I may not get up at 6:00 or 7:00 am, like Tom.
Getting up late is no problem. There certainly is no specific necessity to get up early most days. I guess this is a part of enjoying retirement. When we fly out on March 1, our flight isn’t until after 10:00 pm so that no rushing will be required. Of course, we won’t sleep for almost 54 hours from the time we awake on March 1 until we go to bed in Marloth Park on March 3,
That’s the most challenging part about getting there: it’s far away, well over 10,000 flight miles. We’ve learned not to dread the flight and to accept it as part of the opportunity to be in this magical place. I can’t believe we’re leaving in a month!
Initially, we’d planned to be away from Marloth Park for 13 months. Now, after my health issues, it will be 23 months since we left in April 2023. It’s been a long haul over these past 23 months interspersed with great experiences and some not so much. Here’s the breakdown of where we’ve been in the past 23 months:
- April 2023: left South Africa
- April 2023 – July 2023: The Villages, Florida
- July 2023 – Scotland
- August 2023: Cruise, Norway to Amsterdam
- August 2023: Cruise Iceland, Greenland, Canada, to Boston, then back to the US
- September 2023: Boston to Las Vegas, Nevada (we needed to renew our driver’s licenses)
- September 2023: Las Vegas, Nevada to Minneapolis, Minnesota
- October 2023: Minneapolis, Minnesota, to Quito, Ecuador
- October 2023: Quito to cruise The Galapagos Islands back to Quito, Ecuador
- October, November, December 2023: Holiday rental in Ecuador
- December 2023 to April 2024: Ecuador to Lake Las Vegas, Nevada
- April 2024: Lake Las Vegas, Nevada to Apache Junction, Arizona
- May 2024: Drove from Apache Junction to Los Angeles, California, to Minneapolis, Minnesota
- May, June, July, and August 2024: Minneapolis, Minnesota, waiting for appointments at Cleveland Clinic
- August, September, October, November, and December 2024: Cleveland Clinic, Cleveland, Ohio
- December 2024, March 2025: Lake Las Vegas. Nevada
- March 1, 2025: Fly from Las Vegas to Nelspruit/Mpumalanga/Kruger Airport
- March 3, 2025: Drive from Nelspruit/Mpumalanga/Kruger Airport to Marloth Park
Wow! After seeing this in writing, we realize how much travel we’ve done in the past almost two years. It’s exhausting just reading this! We had a lot of fun in some ways, but it was tedious and stressful in other ways. But, in any case, we are excited to be on the move again in one month!
Thanks to all of our readers for spending these long months with us. In a short time, the excitement will begin again. We are very grateful.
Be well.
Photo from ten years ago today, February 1, 2015: