
Yesterday, we started talking about an upcoming reality that has been quietly hovering in the background of our days, waiting for the right moment to step forward and demand our attention. It arrived not with urgency or stress, but with curiosity and a shared sense of wonder. Where will we go after our next 90 days in South Africa end in September? And just as importantly, when will we return, knowing that the Christmas holiday season brings intense heat and an influx of holidaymakers to Marloth Park, transforming its normally tranquil lifestyle into something far busier than we prefer?
These conversations have a familiar cadence for us. They usually begin casually, perhaps over coffee or while glancing at our phones, and then slowly gather depth as possibilities unfold. This time, they led us down a familiar path: scanning airfares, jotting down potential destinations, and weighing comfort against curiosity. Eventually, we set aside the airline apps and opened a map of Africa, letting geography guide the conversation instead of algorithms.
That was when the idea emerged, almost effortlessly. What if we stayed somewhere else in Africa for six months? What if we allowed ourselves to experience another corner of this vast, complex, and endlessly fascinating continent, returning to Marloth Park the following March, when the cooler winter weather settles in, and life resumes its slower, though socially active, more peaceful pace? The thought felt right, balanced, practical, and gently adventurous.
But as always, reality adds structure to dreams. Visa rules are not suggestions; our well-worn travel brains immediately shift into problem-solving mode. We know we can’t obtain a new 90-day visa by visiting countries bordering South Africa. That simple fact eliminated several otherwise tempting options and narrowed the field considerably. South Africa shares land borders with five countries: Namibia, Botswana, Zimbabwe, Mozambique, and Eswatini (formerly Swaziland). It also surrounds the independent kingdom of Lesotho, making it a geographic enclave within South Africa.
To the north lie Namibia, Botswana, and Zimbabwe. To the northeast and east are Mozambique and Eswatini. Lesotho, tucked entirely within South Africa’s borders, is its own world, but for visa purposes, it doesn’t solve our challenge. Each of these countries holds its own allure, memories, and beauty, but none can reset our South African visa clock.
As we studied the map more closely, we were reminded of just how vast Africa truly is. Beyond Southern Africa lies an intricate patchwork of countries, cultures, climates, and lifestyles. At the same time, we’re realistic. Not every destination is suited for long-term stays, and not every place is particularly tourist-friendly for three to six months at a time. Infrastructure, healthcare access, safety, and day-to-day livability all matter far more than novelty at this stage of our travels.
What we’re really seeking isn’t a whirlwind adventure or a checklist of sights. We’re looking for somewhere that lets us settle in, create routines, shop at local markets, cook simple meals, and, at least temporarily, feel at home. Somewhere warm but not stifling, interesting but not exhausting, welcoming without requiring constant movement.
As we closed the map and leaned back, a quiet sense of gratitude filled the room. We are fortunate even to be having this conversation. This is a “problem” born of choice, freedom, and time, luxuries we never take lightly. The answers didn’t come yesterday, and that’s perfectly fine. Sometimes the value lies not in the decision itself, but in the thoughtful, shared process of getting there.
For now, the map of Africa remains open in our minds, dotted with possibilities, patiently waiting for the next chapter to reveal itself. As we progress in these decisions, we will keep our readers informed, as always.
Be well.
Photo from ten years ago today, January 5, 2015:


































