Seat squatting at 30,000 feet…

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This is a rainbow agama, which we call “Aggie.” He visits from time to time

On a few occasions, while boarding flights, other passengers have asked one of us to change our assigned seats to accommodate their family. Since we always choose aisle seats across from each other, if we can maintain an aisle seat, we are willing to move.

If moving requires us to end up in a middle or window seat, we are not willing to move, especially since most of our flights are long. Fortunately, we’ve never encountered hostile passengers when we’ve refused. However, recently, there have been countless reports of hostile passengers making a scene on a flight when another passenger refuses to give up their seat to accommodate the needs of other passengers.

In the not-so-friendly skies, a new battleground of etiquette is emerging: the rise of the seat squatter. For those unfamiliar with the term, “seat squatting” refers to the act of deliberately claiming a seat on a plane that wasn’t assigned to you, often without asking or waiting for permission. It’s become an increasingly common issue, especially on full or overbooked flights, and it’s causing friction among travelers, flight attendants, and airlines alike.

The Anatomy of a Seat Squat

A seat squat can take many forms. Sometimes it’s subtle—someone quietly slips into an empty aisle seat, hoping no one claims it. Other times, it’s more brazen—a passenger walks past their assigned middle seat and sits in a coveted window or aisle spot, banking on the fact that the rightful passenger might not show up or will concede to avoid confrontation.

Nola, one of Norman’s grandchildren, has an injury on her side.

In some cases, it’s born of logic. For instance, a person might swap a middle seat to sit next to their partner or take an empty row toward the back of the plane after boarding is complete. But it becomes contentious when it’s done prematurely, presumptuously, or without regard for others.

Why People Do It

There are a few reasons passengers engage in seat squatting:

  • Comfort and convenience: Let’s face it, airplane seats aren’t luxurious. If there’s a better one nearby, the temptation is real.

  • Poor planning: Some travelers failed to choose seats in advance or arrived late for check-in, resulting in them being assigned the worst options.

  • Entitlement or arrogance: A small percentage of passengers feel rules don’t apply to them and that they deserve better than what they paid for.

  • Misunderstanding: Not all squatters are intentionally rude. First-time flyers or travelers unfamiliar with seating policies may not realize that seats are pre-assigned and cannot be negotiated.

    Nathan, Norman’s son, Nina, his partner, and Natalie, his daughter from a few years ago.

How It Impacts Other Passengers

For many flyers, persistent travelers, and seat squatters, it’s more than just a minor annoyance. It’s a breach of basic courtesy. Passengers carefully select seats for various reasons, including extra legroom, proximity to the bathroom, distance from the bathroom, medical needs, or simply personal preference. When someone takes a seat that isn’t theirs, it creates awkward encounters that can set the tone for the entire flight.

It also places unfair pressure on the rightful seat-holder. Confront them and risk a tense situation, or accept a less desirable seat to avoid conflict? Some passengers—especially solo travelers, the elderly, or those with anxiety—might not feel comfortable asking someone to move, even when they have every right to.

And for flight attendants, this issue becomes yet another interpersonal puzzle to solve before takeoff. Cabin crews already juggle tight schedules, safety checks, and customer service. Sorting out squatting disputes is not a role they relish.

Norman was watching his family in our garden.

What the Airlines Say

Airlines are clear: your boarding pass dictates your seat. Many carriers have reinforced policies and now make in-flight announcements discouraging passengers from changing seats until boarding is complete. Some, like budget airlines, use strict seat enforcement as a way to encourage passengers to pay extra for preferred seats.

Technology is also playing a role. Digital boarding passes, real-time seat maps, and check-in reminders give passengers more control over seat selection, but also highlight the fact that those better seats often come at a premium.

Still, many travelers report that enforcement varies. On less crowded flights, some crews are relaxed about empty seats. On fully booked or oversold routes, however, enforcement is tighter, and squatters are routinely asked to return to their original seat.

Is There a “Right” Way to Change Seats?

Absolutely. It comes down to respect, timing, and communication. Here are a few guidelines if you’re hoping to switch:

  1. Wait until boarding is complete: You can’t know if a seat is truly available until the doors close.

  2. Ask permission: If the seat belongs to someone, request a swap. Offer a reasonable trade and respect their answer.

  3. Ask a flight attendant: They have the final say and can help facilitate any swaps without disrupting the boarding process.

  4. Be gracious: If you’re denied a move, accept it without fuss. Remember, comfort isn’t guaranteed in economy class.

    Kudu moms and babies in the garden.

Social Media and Seat Shaming

In the age of TikTok and Reddit, seat squatting has gone viral. Videos of mid-air arguments, passive-aggressive note passing, and dramatic seat negotiations rack up millions of views. Passengers now turn to social media for validation or condemnation of their actions, further fueling the debate.

Some viewers applaud those who stand their ground against squatters; others argue for empathy and flexibility, especially for families with small children or passengers with disabilities. The court of public opinion, like the cabin aisle, can be a tight space.

The Bottom Line

Air travel isn’t always pleasant. Seats are cramped, flights are full, and tempers run high. But courtesy costs nothing. Seat squatting may seem like a harmless move in the moment, but it can disrupt the harmony of a flight and spark unnecessary tension.

Ultimately, it’s about treating fellow travelers with respect. We’re all at the mercy of the same recycled air and plastic snack tray, so claiming someone else’s seat uninvited isn’t just bad form. It’s a sign of forgetting we’re all in this sky-bound journey together.

If you want a window seat, book it early. Or ask nicely because no one wants to start their journey with a standoff over seat 23A.

Be well.

Photo from ten years ago today, July 18, 2015:

The house is surrounded by lush vegetation, including numerous large coconut and palm trees, as well as an endless variety of shrubs and plants. For more photos, please click here.

A serendipitous bit of fun!…What are dress code requirements for world travel?…

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Nathan, Norman’s son, is chewing on an apple. Love the look on his face!

Yesterday afternoon, we chatted with friends Linda and Ken. It was Linda’s birthday, and we hadn’t communicated for a few months after having houseguests for almost two months, out of three, here in the bush. For our remaining nearly two months in Marloth Park, until we depart for Spain on September 14.

As we discussed our mutual travel plans for September and October, we discovered that the four of us will be in Barcelona at the same time in October, when they’ll have a port of call during their upcoming cruise, and while we are waiting to board our first of four cruises at the end of October, sailing from Barcelona. How ironic.

In the last almost 13 years of world travel, we met up with Linda and Ken, by coincidence, in the following locations:

  1. 2017: Sydney, Australia
  2. 2019: Wales, UK
  3. 2025: Barcelona, Spain

We were thrilled to know that we’ll be seeing these dear friends, if only for a part of the day, once again in yet another location in the world.

Here is Norman, contemplating jumping over the little fence, before he broke his leg.

Continuing on with today’s topic:

When traveling abroad, understanding local dress codes is more than just a matter of fashion—it reflects cultural sensitivity, religious customs, and, in some cases, legal requirements. While many destinations are relaxed about attire, others have specific guidelines that tourists should follow to avoid offense or even fines. Here’s an 800-word guide on dress code requirements for tourists in various countries across different regions of the world.

Middle East and North Africa (MENA)

United Arab Emirates (UAE)

Dubai and Abu Dhabi are more liberal than other Gulf nations, but modest clothing is still expected in public places. Men should avoid walking shirtless outside of the beach or pool area, while women should cover their shoulders and knees. At religious sites like mosques, women are required to wear headscarves and clothing that is long, loose-fitting. Tight, revealing clothing is discouraged.

Another sunny and comfortable day in the garden.

Saudi Arabia

Saudi Arabia has strict dress codes rooted in Islamic law. Women are required to wear an abaya (a long, black cloak) in public and are often expected to cover their hair with a scarf; however, rules have relaxed slightly for tourists since 2019. Men should avoid shorts and sleeveless shirts in public spaces. At religious sites, full compliance with traditional attire is required.

Morocco

In cities like Marrakech and Casablanca, dress is more relaxed, but tourists should still dress modestly. Women should cover their shoulders and avoid short skirts or shorts. Men should wear shirts in public and refrain from wearing tank tops. In rural or conservative areas, more modest attire is essential.

A giraffe was walking through the garden.

Asia

India

India is diverse, but modesty is generally expected across the country. Women travelers should avoid tight-fitting or revealing clothing, particularly in temples or rural areas. A long skirt or loose trousers paired with a modest top is ideal. Men should wear long pants and avoid sleeveless shirts in conservative areas. Religious sites require heads, shoulders, and legs to be covered for all genders.

Thailand

In urban areas and beaches, clothing is pretty casual, but modest dress is essential when visiting temples and royal palaces. Both men and women must cover their shoulders and knees; wearing long pants or skirts is mandatory. Swimwear should never be worn away from the pool or beach.

Japan

Japan doesn’t have strict dress codes, but neat, conservative attire is appreciated, especially in temples and shrines. Revealing clothing may attract stares in rural areas. Tattoos, which are often associated with the Yakuza, should be covered in hot springs (onsens) and pools.

White-fronted bee-eaters at the birdbath.

Europe

France and Italy

Western Europe tends to be fashion-forward, but generally liberal about dress codes. However, in churches and religious sites, tourists are expected to dress modestly; bare shoulders and short skirts are not allowed. In Italy, some cathedrals may deny entry to visitors who do not meet these standards. In beach towns, walking around in swimwear away from the beach is frowned upon.

Turkey

Though technically a secular country, Turkey has a mix of modern and traditional values. In Istanbul and coastal cities, attire is contemporary and relaxed. However, when visiting mosques, women are required to cover their hair, shoulders, and legs; men should refrain from wearing shorts. Scarves and long skirts are often provided at larger mosques.

Africa (Sub-Saharan)

Kenya and Tanzania

In cities and tourist areas, Western-style dress is prevalent, but modest attire is still appreciated. Women should avoid wearing mini-skirts and crop tops, especially in rural or Muslim-dominant regions such as Zanzibar or Mombasa. When on safari, neutral-colored, comfortable clothing is ideal. Men should avoid shorts in formal or rural settings.

South Africa

Dress codes are generally relaxed in most of South Africa, particularly in urban areas such as Cape Town and Johannesburg. However, when visiting townships, churches, or rural communities, dressing modestly is a sign of respect.

The Americas

United States and Canada

Dress is generally informal, with wide personal freedom. However, in religious settings or formal occasions, modest attire is often expected. In beach towns, swimwear should be reserved for the beach or pool area. Some upscale restaurants and clubs have a dress code that ranges from bright and casual to formal.

Mexico

In major cities and beach resorts, casual clothing is fine. However, when visiting churches or traditional towns, both men and women should dress modestly—no short shorts, tank tops, or crop tops are allowed. For women, a light shawl or scarf is handy for church visits.

Brazil

Known for its beach culture, Brazil is quite relaxed about attire in coastal cities. However, when away from the beach, it’s considered inappropriate to wear just swimwear in public spaces. In churches or government buildings, more conservative attire is expected.

Oceania

Australia and New Zealand

These countries are laid-back and casual, with no strict dress codes. However, beachwear should be confined to the beach, and shoes are expected in stores and restaurants. In Aboriginal communities, modest clothing may be appreciated as a sign of respect.

The Crocodile River, as seen from Amazing Kruger View Restaurant.

Fiji and Samoa

In many South Pacific islands, modest dress is required when away from tourist resorts. Women should wear skirts or dresses that cover the knees and shoulders when visiting villages or churches. Men should avoid going shirtless unless on the beach. Sarongs (also known as sulus) are often worn as a sign of cultural respect.

Lots of kudus and impalas are in the garden regularly.

General Tips for Dressing Abroad

  1. Research Religious Sites – Always carry a scarf or shawl for unexpected visits to religious buildings.

  2. Watch What Locals Wear – Observing how locals dress is the easiest way to avoid standing out or offending.

  3. Avoid National Symbols – In some countries, wearing clothing with national flags or sacred symbols is considered disrespectful.

  4. Layer Smartly – Pack versatile pieces, such as cardigans, shawls, or loose-fitting trousers, that allow for quick adjustments.

Respecting local dress codes isn’t just about fitting in—it’s about acknowledging and honoring the cultures you’re visiting. In some places, inappropriate dress can result in being denied entry to landmarks, attract unwanted attention, or even provoke legal consequences. By packing thoughtfully and dressing modestly when appropriate, tourists can demonstrate cultural awareness and enhance their travel experiences.

This afternoon at 3:00 pm, we have a planned WhatsApp call with Christine, one of our readers from Canada, to answer questions they have about traveling to Africa. We are always happy to assist any of our world-traveling readers. Using WhatsApp, the calls are clear and free.

This evening, around 4:30, we’re heading back to Ngwenya for river watching, sundowners, and their buffet dinner with Louise and Danie. It’s always a delight to get together with the two of them.

Be well.

Photo from ten years ago today, July 17, 2015:

At the Australian Armory, an  AM113A1 Fire Support Vehicle (Saladin Turret). For more photos, please click here.

Our guests have left…Quiz Night bomb!…Four more days until…

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Last Thursday, we had views from Ngwenya, where the four of us went for the buffet dinner.

This morning, I received a message from Kady. They made it to London, and now the seven-plus-hour layover begins. We appreciate the difficulty of these long layovers and how taxing they can be, especially after getting little to no sleep on the previous flight. Kady will stay in touch along the rest of the way.

Yesterday, the N4 highway was backed up due to road construction, and they had to leave earlier than the planned 2:30 pm. The driver, Shaun, arrived at 1:30, and moments later, they were gone. It was sad to see them go, but with the wonderful life we enjoy here in the bush, it took us no time at all to get back to just the two of us.

Tomorrow night, we’re returning to Ngwenya with Louise and Danie.

By 4:30, we headed to the little market to buy fruits and vegetables for Norman, and by 5:00, we entered Giraffe for dinner and Quiz Night. Hugging many friends we encountered as we entered Giraffe made us smile as usual. South Africans hug and kiss their friends when they see them arrive and leave. It’s a cultural thing and we easily fell into this custom.

Our new friend Noelene, who was joining our team, sat with us at the bar while we sipped our drinks: a Lion beer for Tom and an extra-light wine for me. I stick to two glasses of this light wine when out, which is usually available at most restaurants. However, at Jabula, Dawn orders my favorite, Four Cousins Skinny wine, to keep on hand for me, either red or rosé, both of which I enjoy.

A waterbuck on the Crocodile River as seen from Ngwenya.

On Friday nights, I order a bottle of Skinny wine and drink half of it. The following night, I drink the other half, which they store for me overnight in the fridge. At Zar 220, US$12.27 per bottle, I can enjoy my two glasses at Zar 110, US $6.13 per evening. While we were in the US, a single glass of wine, typically a small pour of 4 to 5 ounces, cost $12.00 to $15.00.

At Giraffe on Quiz night, my two glasses of extra light wine are Zar 30, US $1.67 each for a total expenditure of ZAR 60, US $3.34. For example, our total bill at Giraffe last night, which included Tom’s beer, my wine, two dinners, and tax and tip, was Zar 637.53, or US $35.56. It will be challenging to pay higher prices when we arrive in Spain in two months.

The sun is making its final descent.

Last night at Quiz Night, we were missing Daphne, our usual team member who was busy serving as the quiz mistress, and her husband, Neville, who also usually plays on our team, had to work at his job as manager of Giraffe. As a result, Noelene joined us along with our usual team member, Marolize, leaving us with a team of four.

The questions were 100% South African. We contributed a few answers when it came to the Nelson Mandela questions, but were at a loss for the balance of the questions, with answers only South Africans would know, including the music session. We’d never heard any of the songs, and we offered no help at all. Our team ended up last among the eight teams playing. It was disappointing for us. Hopefully, next week will be about more general knowledge when we’ll have something to contribute.

This morning, we washed a load of placemats and towels and began cooking a pot of mince (ground beef) for tonight’s dinner of taco salads. In a few hours, Tom will head to Nelspruit to swap out the rental car for another 30-day rental. Unfortunately, he has to make the three-hour round trip, but our credit cards only insure us for the first 30 days of a car rental contract.

And then it is gone.

Since we don’t have a car of our own with insurance, our only coverage is through the credit card’s 30-day plan. It’s a byproduct of being nomads who travel the world; in essence, a small price to pay. Otherwise, we’d have to pay a considerable amount through the rental company.

He’ll return by dinner, and we’ll enjoy a quiet evening, dining at the table on the veranda and watching the wildlife. Hopefully, we’ll see Norman again.

The school holidays end this coming Sunday, and the tourists will return to their homes in other locations. Once again, the bush will be calm and peaceful with more and more wildlife stopping by to see us, exactly how we like it.

Be well.

Photo from ten years ago today, July 16, 2015:

Located on Highway 91 en route to Cairns, the Australian Armour & Military Museum is a popular point of interest for both tourists and locals. For more photos, please click here.

Heartbreaking story of beloved animal…Our friends are leaving today…

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Norman arrived in our garden at 10:30 PM and didn’t leave until midnight, gingerly making his way back over the little fence.

Today, our dear friends Kady and Rich will be leaving Marloth Park at 2:30 pm, when driver Wayland arrives to drive them to the airport in Nelspruit to begin the long journey back to their home in Florida, USA. We certainly understand the rigors of the almost two-day trek with long layovers and uncomfortable flights.

It’s been fantastic having them here with us, with busy days and nights interspersed with an endless stream of wildlife visitors. Their favorite activity was sitting at the table on our veranda, watching the animals come.

Nina, Norman’s mate, seemed worried about him.

The past 24 hours have been a real treat for them and for us, sharing everything with them, which was especially highlighted with a few giraffes visiting so close to the house that they were in total awe, making videos and taking photos of the magnificent animals. It was the first time the giraffes came to call during daylight hours since their arrival 17 days ago.

How serendipitous it was for the giraffes to arrive on their last full day, while the four of us played the card game, Spades, enjoying sundowners on the veranda.

No doubt, with his seriously injured left front leg, he was tentative about leaping back over the fence.

So today, we send them off with love and friendship, along with a plethora of memories they’ll cherish forever, as they’d embarked on their first foray to Africa, surrounded by wildlife and nature they’ve never experienced before. For us to be able to share the wonders of Marloth Park is indescribable.

On another note, the past few days have been harrowing after discovering that our beloved nyala Norman was seriously injured, perhaps breaking his left front leg. The first thing we heard was that euthanasia was indeed a possibility. We were heartbroken. For the past several years, Norman has been a highlight of our time in Marloth Park.

His left front leg is seriously injured.

I found myself giddy each time he arrived in the garden. Quickly, I’d run to the kitchen to cut up apples and carrots for him. Whenever I’ve made salad, I’ve saved a big bowl of vegetable scraps for him, which he loves, particularly the cabbage and lettuce, which are moist and fresh for him.

When Louise heard he’d been seriously injured, perhaps breaking his front left leg, we were devastated, especially when the news floating around the park was that he was to be euthanized. After years of loving this animal, I was beside myself, unable to contain my sorrow.

He was uncertain as to his next move. Wild animals are always on the move by instinct to forage and to avoid potential predators.

Our friends Kady and Rich had already become attached to Norman and his precious family of children and grandchildren. How could this be? Many said, “It’s nature, the way it should be.” But that doesn’t negate the fact that many of us, entrenched in the wonder and beauty of these animals, don’t become attached even when we never have an opportunity to so much as touch them or hold them in our arms.

When he and his family arrived last night, just as we were about to retire for the evening, he suddenly appeared after jumping over the little fence into the garden area where we feed him. Could his leg only be badly sprained if he was able to jump the fence? No one knows for sure since he’d yet to be darted and x-rayed.

Nina and Norman are often affectionate with one another.

When he arrived last night with his family, who stayed for over an hour with his family at his side, we sat out here with him, feeding him a copious amount of apples and carrots. If he stayed well fed, could he possibly survive a six-to-eight-week recovery period? Had he arrived at this late hour to say his final goodbye to the place where he experiences such love and good treats?

We stayed outdoors with him until he finally jumped back over the fence. These wild animals instinctively roam the bush rather than staying in one place. Sure, our resident wildebeest, Hal, and impala, Mac, are here almost all the time, but every so often they wander off for short periods to search for water and possibly other food sources. Mac seldom leaves for more than a few minutes. He lives here.

Nina stayed with him for the majority of the time he was in our garden. The Kids were outside the little fence, watching and waiting for their dad/grandpa.

When Nina and the kids finally left, he made a plan on how he was going to scale the little fence with that injured leg. Watching a nearby Big Daddy, he fluffed up his hair to make himself appear larger. Soon, the Big Daddy took off, and shortly thereafter, Norman did the same.

I didn’t sleep well, thinking of him being euthanized, even to the point of dreaming about him. First thing this morning, after I was showered, dressed, and outdoors, I wrote a text to Deidre at Wild & Free Rehabilitation Centre, who, along with the rangers and Doc Peet, asked her what to expect. Was he going to be euthanized? I held my breath waiting to hear her answer.

Only a moment later, she responded in a voice text, stating that if his health and strength are maintained during the recovery period, he won’t be euthanized. But, it will require a concerted effort by everyone he comes in contact with to help feed him and keep him well-nourished.

It was wonderful having our dear friends Kady and Rich here for 17 days. We will surely miss them.

The park is lacking in food sources for the animals due to months of little to no rain. We will surely do our part to keep Norman well-nourished with the healthy fruits and vegetables we know he loves and are healthy for him to consume. Only time will tell if he can survive the six-to-eight week recovery period. We’ll keep you informed.

Tonight is Quiz Night. Around 4:30, we’ll head out to the little local market, Savemor, to buy more carrots and apples for Norman. We plan to spend all of our evenings outdoors as late as we can to ensure we don’t miss Norman stopping by.

Be well.

Photo from ten years ago today, July 15, 2015:

There are laws regarding the collection of any pieces of coral in Australia. For more photos, please click here.

Impala invasion after lucerne delivery…

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Three male kudus with varying horn sizes, from Big Daddy to Medium Daddy to Little Daddy, are attempting to share the lucerne this morning.

This morning, a bale of lucerne arrived after we’d ordered it yesterday at Daisy’s Den. Only moments after it was laid on the ground by the delivery guy in the usual spot by the tree, impalas surrounded it. They are hungry too. The bush is dry and brown with few natural food sources for the wildlife.

The rains won’t come until fall, when once again the bush will be lush and green with plenty of vegetation for the wild animals to eat. It’s going to be a long winter for them. Although many disapprove of feeding the animals, we, amongst the majority of Marloth Park citizens and visitors, can’t bear to see the animals starve to death.

The kudus were enjoying the lucerne.

They must only be provided with food that causes no harm to their digestive systems, but pellets, lucerne, and certain fruits and vegetables are acceptable. However, they should not be fed most human foods, such as corn, potato chips, pasta, crackers, bread, and sweets. Consuming such foods can be life-threatening to them.

Impala (Aepyceros melampus) are among the most abundant and iconic antelope species in South Africa, especially in places like Kruger National Park and other game reserves. Their behavior is shaped by their need for survival in an environment filled with predators and seasonal changes in food and water availability. Below is an overview of their typical behaviors:

Social Structure and Grouping

Impalas are highly social animals that typically live in structured groups. There are three main types of impala herds:

  1. Breeding Herds: These consist of females and their young, led loosely by one or more adult females.

  2. Bachelor Herds: Groups of young or adult males not currently holding a territory or harem.

  3. Territorial Males: During the rutting season (typically around March to May), dominant males establish and defend territories, attempting to gather harems of females for mating.

These herds can sometimes contain dozens to over a hundred animals, especially in areas with plentiful resources.

Big Daddy was monopolizing the bale of lucerne.

Feeding Behavior

Impalas are mixed feeders, which means they both graze on grass and browse on shrubs, leaves, and fruits, depending on seasonal availability. This dietary flexibility helps them survive year-round in the varied South African landscape.

They are most active in the early morning and late afternoon, spending the heat of the day resting in shade.

Anti-Predator Behavior

Impalas are prey to many large carnivores such as lions, leopards, cheetahs, hyenas, and wild dogs. As such, they have developed keen senses and survival strategies:

  • Alertness: Impalas are constantly vigilant and rely heavily on sight, sound, and smell to detect threats.

  • Stotting or “Pronking”: When startled, they often leap high into the air, sometimes over 3 meters high and 10 meters long. This behavior may confuse predators or signal fitness to discourage pursuit.

    • Big Daddy was particularly enjoying himself.

    Group Safety: Living in large groups helps reduce individual risk, as more eyes and ears are available to detect danger.

Breeding and Mating Behavior

During the rut, dominant males become highly territorial and aggressive. They engage in loud vocalizations (deep grunts and snorts), scent-marking, and head-to-head clashes with rivals. Mating occurs in this period, and females give birth about six to seven months later, typically in November or December.

Female impalas often give birth at roughly the same time, which may overwhelm predators and increase the chances of calf survival—a strategy known as synchronized birthing.

Lots of female kudus and youngsters.

Vocalizations and Communication

Impalas communicate using various vocal sounds, such as:

  • Snorts: To alert others of danger.

  • Grunts and bellows: Used mainly by males during the rut to advertise dominance.

  • Bleating: Calves bleat to call for their mothers.

They also rely on body language—tail-raising, ear flicking, and postures—to convey alarm or social status.

Impalas returned for more lucerne.

Habitat and Range

In South Africa, impalas thrive in savanna woodlands, especially where there is a mix of open grassland and bush. They require access to water and prefer habitats where they can quickly escape into cover if threatened.

Interesting Behavioral Traits

  • Impalas often associate with other species, such as zebras or wildebeest, which enhances mutual predator detection.

  • During dry seasons, they can survive on less water by switching to more browse-based feeding.

  • They groom each other, particularly in bachelor groups, which reinforces social bonds and helps with parasite removal.

    The impalas came by and left depending on what other animals stopped by that might pose a threat.

Impalas may seem commonplace on a safari, but their social dynamics, agility, and constant alertness make them one of the most fascinating and adaptive creatures in South Africa’s wild landscapes.

With the new bale of lucerne here today, which is already almost half gone, we’ll be hanging around today and will head out to Jabula around 5:00 pm. There’s another rugby game on the monitors at Jabula tonight, so we won’t be able to sit in the bar, but we’re happy to dine on the veranda like we did last night, having a delicious dinner and lively conversation.

Lucerne is a rare treat for impalas, who are often too shy to approach humans this closely.

That’s it for today, folks.

Be well.

Photo from ten years ago today, July 12, 2015:

We fell in love with the pelicans in Australia for their beauty, grace, and movement. For more photos, please click here.

More wonders in the bush with Kady and Rich…Only four more days until they depart…

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This is the thick-tailed busybaby that walks the veranda railing at Jabula, enjoying the bits of banana the staff leave for him.

Today’s main photo is of a thick-tailed bushbaby, which few have ever seen. Every weekend when we dine at Jabula, we see this elusive nocturnal animal when the staff places a piece of banana along the railing to attract their nighttime visitor.

Guests are always in awe of seeing this special creature, and phones are busy attempting to take a photo of this difficult-to-capture, fast-moving animal.

Here is some detailed information about the bushbaby, at least twice the size of the tiny bushbabies:

The Thick-Tailed Bushbaby: A Nocturnal Acrobat of the African Night

The thick-tailed bushbaby (also known as the greater galago), Otolemur crassicaudatus, is the largest of the galago species and one of Africa’s most captivating nocturnal primates. With its oversized eyes, expressive ears, and extraordinary leaping ability, this elusive creature has adapted beautifully to life in the treetops. Found in wooded areas, forests, and savannas across eastern and southern Africa, including parts of Kruger National Park, the thick-tailed bushbaby is both mysterious and marvelously equipped for life after dark.

Giraffes in the garden.

Weighing between 1 and 2 kilograms and measuring up to 75 cm in length (including the tail), the thick-tailed bushbaby is significantly larger than its more diminutive cousins. Its long, bushy tail not only helps with balance when leaping between trees, but also serves as a visual identifier. The body is covered in dense, woolly fur that ranges in color from gray to brown, allowing it to blend effortlessly into the treetop shadows.One of the bushbaby’s most striking features is its enormous eyes, perfectly adapted for night vision. These primates are entirely nocturnal, and their sharp vision is complemented by acute hearing, thanks

their large, mobile ears. Bushbabies can swivel their ears independently to detect the faintest rustle of leaves or insect movement, giving them a near-surreal awareness of their surroundings.

Their diet is varied and omnivorous. Thick-tailed bushbabies feed on fruits, tree gum, insects, small birds, and even eggs. They are particularly fond of the sticky exudate produced by acacia trees, which they harvest by gouging into the bark. This makes them vital to their ecosystem, as they help with seed dispersal and control insect populations.

The magic of giraffes in the garden continues to amaze us.

Social by nature, thick-tailed bushbabies often live in small groups, although they forage alone. They communicate through a variety of vocalizations, ranging from sharp barks and grunts to eerie cries that echo through the night. These calls serve to establish territory, alert others to danger, or locate one another in the dense forest.

Their locomotion is another marvel. Thick-tailed bushbabies are powerful leapers, capable of jumping over 2 meters from branch to branch using their strong hind limbs. On the ground, they move with a bounding gait, but they’re much more agile and comfortable among the trees. Their hands and feet are equipped with opposable thumbs and grooming claws, which aid both in movement and personal hygiene.

Despite their adaptability, thick-tailed bushbabies face several threats. Habitat loss due to deforestation and the expansion of human settlements continues to shrink their natural range. In some regions, they are hunted for bushmeat or captured for the illegal pet trade. However, they are currently classified as Least Concern by the IUCN, thanks to their relatively wide distribution and ability to live in both protected and modified environments.

Big Daddy stops by several times a day.

For those lucky enough to hear a thick-tailed bushbaby’s calls on a warm African night, or to glimpse its wide eyes in the beam of a flashlight—it’s a magical reminder of the life that thrives while the world sleeps. Agile, intelligent, and adapted to the night, the thick-tailed bushbaby is a quiet yet vital part of Africa’s nocturnal ecosystem.

On another note, in four days, on Tuesday, July 15, Kady and Rich will begin the long trek back to the US. The layover time in London has been reduced from nine hours to seven, which helps a little. We’ll be anxious to hear how they are feeling once they return. It’s never easy, but it seems that going from east to west is a little better with time gained as opposed to lost.

Last night the four of us had dinner at Ngwenya Resort enjoying the meaty buffet and its wonderful offerings. This all-you-can-eat buffet with delicious meats and side dishes is ZAR 200, US $11.22. With our drinks, tax and tip the total bill was ZAR 807, US $45.28.

We’ll be sad to see Kady and Rich leave but, Tom and I will easily roll back to our usual active lives in the bush with our human and animal friends. As always, life will be good.

Be well.

Photo from ten years ago today, July 11, 2015:

Ironically, one of our favorite wild animals at the Cairns Tropical Zoo was the Dingo, looking familiar to us as a domesticated dog. However, Dingos are wild animals, and many attempts to domesticate them have failed. For more photos, please click here.

A rare and special sighting in Kruger National Park…Quiz Night results…

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This was the first time in a long time that Tom and I had seen a jackal. Read the information below about jackals.

Jackals in Kruger National Park: The Clever Canids of the Savanna

In the vast expanse of Kruger National Park, South Africa’s premier wildlife sanctuary, jackals may not be as imposing as lions or as majestic as elephants. Still, they are among the most fascinating and adaptable creatures in the park. With their sharp wits, resourcefulness, and eerie calls that echo through the bush at dusk, jackals play a vital role in Kruger’s ecosystem.

There are two species of jackals found in Kruger: the black-backed jackal (Canis mesomelas) and the side-striped jackal (Canis adustus). Both are members of the dog family and are known for their cunning nature, often likened to foxes or coyotes in behavior and appearance. The black-backed jackal is the more common of the two and is easily recognized by the dark saddle of fur running down its back, which contrasts sharply with its rusty-colored body. The side-striped jackal, less frequently seen, has a grayer coat with light stripes running along its flanks.

The jackal was searching back and forth for food.

Black-backed jackals are highly visible in open savanna areas, particularly during early morning and late afternoon. They are vocal animals, often heard before they are seen. Their haunting, high-pitched howls and yelps serve as a form of communication with family members and a warning to rival jackals. Visitors to Kruger often hear their calls at night, part of the park’s wild, nocturnal soundscape.

Jackals are opportunistic omnivores, which means they will eat almost anything available. Their diet includes insects, rodents, birds, reptiles, fruit, and even the leftovers from predator kills. They are excellent scavengers and are often seen trailing behind larger carnivores, such as lions and hyenas, in hopes of snatching scraps. Despite this, jackals are also skilled hunters in their own right and can take down small antelopes, especially when hunting in pairs. Their intelligence and adaptability allow them to thrive in both open plains and more wooded areas.

It was exciting to see several Cape buffaloes and elephants at the Verhami Dam, which we’ve seldom seen.

One of the more fascinating behaviors of jackals is their monogamous pair bonding. A male and female will form a lifelong pair and defend a shared territory. They often raise their pups together in dens, with both parents actively participating in feeding and protecting their young. In some cases, older offspring from previous litters may remain with the family to help raise the next generation, a trait more commonly associated with social species, such as wolves.

In Kruger, jackals play a significant role in maintaining the ecological balance. By scavenging carcasses, they contribute to natural sanitation and help limit the spread of disease. Their predation on rodents and insects also controls populations of potential agricultural pests.

Though jackals are abundant, they often go unnoticed by tourists, who are more interested in spotting the Big Five. However, for those who take the time to watch these intelligent creatures, jackals offer an intriguing window into the subtleties of life in the bush. Their interactions, vocalizations, and social dynamics reveal the complexities of survival in a challenging environment.

What a fine view of an adult and two young giraffes against the backdrop of the pretty sky.

Side-striped jackals, more elusive than their black-backed cousins, prefer areas with thicker vegetation and are primarily nocturnal. They are less vocal and more solitary, rarely seen during game drives. Yet, their role in the ecosystem is just as important, and spotting one is a rare and rewarding experience for any wildlife enthusiast.

In a landscape dominated by giants, jackals remind us that intelligence, adaptability, and cooperation are equally powerful tools for survival. Observing them in Kruger is a testament to the park’s biodiversity—not just in size and spectacle, but in the subtle, everyday lives of its quieter residents.

We spotted this elephant near the road close to the Verhami Dam in Kruger.

Last night, we headed to Giraffe Pub & Grill for Quiz Night, and although we didn’t win, we came in fourth place and won back the per-person entry fee of ZAR 30, equivalent to US $1.68. It was such fun to play, and we will return on our own next Tuesday, the day that Kady and Rich leave to return to the US.

Tonight, we are going to braai and stay in for the evening. They are having a great time, and it’s been delightful to share the wonders of the bush with them. We’ll be back with more tomorrow.

Be well.

Photo from ten years ago today, July 9, 2015:

Interesting decorations and vegetation growing in the yard of a house in our area of Trinity Beach, Australia. Notice Fred Flintstone on the left in the photo. For more photos, please click here.

Yep…We saw rhinos again yesterday morning in Kruger National Park…South Africa rhino stats…

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For a moment, this rhino turned his head for a partial view of her face. This was the best we could capture.

We figured that when we took off yesterday morning in search of rhinos in Kruger National Park, we had a slim chance of seeing them again, since we’d seen them when our friend Lisa was here in April.

We entered the area within several kilometers of where we’d seen them a few months ago, and there they were, perhaps the same pair or another pair, as the exact number of rhinos in this area is not disclosed.

We cannot disclose the specific location of the rhinos we spotted due to the risk that poachers may read our article and then head out to poach them. Enough have been lost already.

However, the opportunity for our visiting friends Kady and Rich to see rhinos in the wild for the first time in their lives was an indescribable joy. How many people have ever seen rhinos in the wild? This number is impossible to determine since stats are not documented. However, overall, based on the world’s population, it is undoubtedly a small number.

In the past, we have posted rhino statistics several times, but seeing them again prompted us to post them once more.

Here are the latest rhino population and poaching stats for South Africa:

The two rhinos continued to head further away from our view.

Rhino Population Overview

Total Population

  • South Africa is home to around 16,000–18,000 rhinos, the world’s largest population, including both white and black rhinos

  • White rhinos dominate, with approximately 13,000 in 2021, comprising roughly 12,968 in South Africa

  • Black rhinos number around 2,056, representing about 44% of Africa’s total black rhino population

Poaching Trends

2024 Highlights

  • 420 rhinos were poached in South Africa in 2024, a 16% drop from 499 in 2023.

  • Of these, 320 were from public reserves (e.g., national parks) and 100 from private land

  • KwaZulu-Natal province has seen significant progress, with 232 rhinos poached in 2023, down from 325 in 2022, thanks to dehorning and anti-poaching efforts.

  • Kruger National Park recorded 88 poaching incidents in 2024, slightly up from 78 in 2023

    They wandered off for better grazing.

Early 2025 Update

  • Between January and March 2025, 103 rhinos were poached—65 of these within national parks, averaging more than one animal lost daily, mirroring the pace of early 2024

  • Four provinces—Western Cape, Northern Cape, Gauteng, and Eastern Cape—reported zero poaching during this period.

Conservation & Anti-Poaching Efforts

  • A recent Scientific study found that dehorning reduces poaching by ~80%, costing just 1–1.2% of protection budgets in the Greater Kruger region 

  • Other initiatives include:

    • Radioactive horn implants to deter smuggling attempts

    • Enhanced law enforcement, polygraph vetting, anti-corruption measures, and community engagement.

    • Translocations of black rhinos to bolster genetics in private reserves

Summary

  • Population: ~16k–18k total; ~13k white rhinos, ~2k black rhinos.

  • 2024 poaching: 420 killed (16% decrease from 2023); significant reduction in KZN.

  • 2025 Q1: 103 killed; rates remain concerning, though some provinces saw zero loss.

  • Key responses: Dehorning, surveillance technology, arrests, and horn marking—effective but require broader support and continued funding.

With the two rhinos’ backsides facing us at a distance, we weren’t able to take many good photos. But, we were thrilled to capture the few that were possible.

Be well.

Photo from ten years ago today, July 8, 2015:

This adorable Kookaburra posed for me in the yard while sitting on the fence next to the rain gauge. These birds are much larger than they appear in this photo. For more photos, please click here.

Introducing our friends to a lively night at Jabula!…Tourist transportation hazards…

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Last night, we had a fantastic evening at Jabula.

Last night couldn’t have been more fun. We arrived at Jabula a little later than usual. We wouldn’t have been sitting at the bar, given the vast number of sports enthusiasts watching the rugby game, so we headed directly to our assigned table on the veranda.

The service, the food, and the ambiance couldn’t have been more perfect, even amid the vast, rowdy crowd. The staff provided exemplary service and food. Thanks to Dawn and Leon, Corrine, and all the staff for a superior experience. We even got into the exuberant dancing on the dance floor to the lively popular music after the game ended. What a fun place to share with our friends.

On another note, here’s an important article that may be of interest to our readers who rent portable personal transportation while traveling.

From Travel & Leisure at this link:

“Major Tourist Destinations Have a Hidden Transportation Hazard That Leaves Travelers and Locals Vulnerable—What to Know

Are micromobility devices a growing safety crisis? By Staff Author, Published on July 5, 2025

  • E-bike and scooter injuries have surged, according to researchers at UCSF.
  • Many tourist cities are restricting the use of micromobility devices due to an increase in accidents and safety concerns.

The newest travel hazard in cities might be something you aren’t expecting at all.

Electric scooters and e-bikes are ubiquitous throughout many cities worldwide, and they aren’t inherently dangerous. But the sheer number of them, combined with the potential for serious accidents, makes them a real and serious travel hazard for visitors.

The setting sun was a perfect backdrop for some photos.

A 2024 study by researchers at UC San Francisco found that injuries from e-bikes have doubled every year from 2017 to 2022, and injuries from scooters have risen by 45 percent annually.

“This increase in accidents not only introduced a demographic shift but also underscores an urgent need for added safety measures,” co-lead author Adrian Fernandez, a chief resident with the UCSF Department of Urology, said in a statement on the UCSF website. “There are undeniable health and environmental benefits to micro-mobility vehicle use, but structural changes must be taken to promote safe riding.”

In response, many major tourist destinations, including New York, Madrid, and Paris, have taken steps to ban or severely limit e-scooters, while others are on the verge of becoming scooter-free. Often, e-bikes and e-scooters behave in ways around pedestrians that put both riders and walkers at risk of injury.

Though serious injuries are rare, they do happen. In 2024, a woman was severely injured in West Hollywood when she was hit by a motorized scooter, suffering a fractured skull and brain swelling that required hospitalization. An American man in Sydney nearly died after being hit by an e-bike that was being ridden in an area where it was not permitted. He needed emergency brain surgery and spent weeks in a coma.

We had a fabulous time with Kady and Rich.

And most run-ins between people and micro-mobility devices go unreported. Many more people have close calls or are injured by speeding scooters, and these experiences can make people nervous in cities, which in turn affects tourists. Tourists can also be responsible for close calls, as they rent e-bikes and scooters to joyride around unfamiliar cities, leading to potential accidents. Riders of e-devices might feel unsafe riding on main streets alongside cars but then become a hazard to pedestrians on sidewalks. Designated scooter lanes can be helpful, but they are not always available.

“As micro-mobility vehicles become more embedded in our daily lives, understanding and addressing the safety challenges they pose is critical,” corresponding author Benjamin N. Breyer, MD, MAS, the Taube Family Distinguished Professor and chair of the UCSF Department of Urology, said on the UCSF website. “By doing so, we can harness the full potential of micro-mobility to create more sustainable, healthy, and safe urban environments.”

Today, we’ll stay in and enjoy the bush, along with an excellent homemade meal. Perhaps we’ll play cards, and without a doubt, the conversation will be lively and animated.

Be well.

Photo from ten years ago today, July 6, 2015:

The house we rented in Phuket, Thailand, was built around its private pool. For more photos, please click here.

Another stunning day in the bush with friends…WiFi security at airports…

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Rich took a selfie of us.

Last night, the four of us went to Jabula for Kady and Rich’s first experience at our favorite restaurant. They loved the environment, the bustling crowds, and, of course, the food. We had another fine evening together in the bush.

The following article appeared in my search results this morning, which I found imperative to share with our readers.

Mr. Bushbuck and Nathan, Norman’s son, got into a little scuffle in the garden.

From Travel & Leisure Magazine:

“This Is One of the Biggest Cybersecurity Mistakes You Can Make at an Airport, Experts Warn

Travelers may want to think twice before connecting to free airport Wi-Fi. By Greg Iacurci Published on June 17, 2025

Cybersecurity experts are aligned that travelers should avoid public Wi-Fi at airports. Please continue reading to learn why it’s such a significant risk and how to access the Internet safely while traveling.

While cruising an airport’s public internet network may feel like a convenience, criminals can easily exploit those networks to steal sensitive data from unsuspecting travelers, experts warn.

“It’s definitely among the worst things you can do at an airport,” Matthew Hicks, a cybersecurity expert and associate professor of computer science at Virginia Tech, told Travel + Leisure.

We had offered them food, but they were at odds about the territory.

Public Wi-Fi is a shared internet connection, often over an unsecured network. Users are therefore vulnerable to hackers, who can intercept data like credit card details or account passwords, and install malware onto consumers’ devices, according to experts.

About 40 percent of Americans have had their data compromised while using a public Wi-Fi network, according to a recent Forbes Advisor survey of 2,000 workers who regularly use public internet. Yet, 23 percent of users said they think public Wi-Fi is entirely safe, and another 43 percent said it’s somewhat secure, the Forbes survey found.

Anything you do on airport Wi-Fi should be something you’d be comfortable with the rest of the world knowing about.

— John Breyault

Because travelers often have ample downtime before flights—and may be in an area without cellular connection—airports are a common access point for public Wi-Fi, Hicks said.

Consumers reported losing more than $16 billion to internet crime overall in 2024, a record high and a 33 percent increase from 2023, according to data from the Federal Bureau of Investigation.

A zebra is taking a rest in the garden.

Personal data breaches were among the top three most common complaints received by the FBI, it said. “As nearly all aspects of our lives have become digitally connected, the attack surface for cyber actors has grown exponentially,” B. Chad Yarbrough, operations director for the FBI’s criminal and cyber unit, wrote in the Bureau’s annual internet crime report. “Scammers are increasingly using the Internet to steal Americans’ hard-earned savings.”

Be careful of fake Wi-Fi networks.

Scammers also often try to trick travelers into logging onto fake Wi-Fi networks, John Breyault, vice president of public policy, telecommunications, and fraud at the National Consumers League, a consumer advocacy group, told T+L.

The four of us at Mugg & Bean, including our friends Rich and Kady, in Lower Sabie, when another diner offered to take our photo.

Someone trying to connect to the O’Hare Guest Wi-Fi network may unknowingly access another—perhaps “O’Hare Guest 2” or “Chicago Airport Wi-Fi”—controlled by a criminal. “Make sure [the network] is the one run by the airport, and not someone setting up a honeypot,” Breyault said.

In 2024, the Australian Federal Police charged a man for allegedly establishing one of these so-called “evil twin” networks to steal people’s personal data. He did this at airports in Perth, Melbourne, and Adelaide, among other places, AFP reported.

Accessing the correct network will “eliminate most of the real attackers,” Hicks said, adding that travelers can ask airport personnel if they’re unsure.

Many kudus and impalas were in the garden, including Mac, our resident impala.

How to safely use Wi-Fi at the airport

Using your cell phone to establish a personal internet hotspot is among the safest ways to access the web in an airport. This simple step will reduce the number of attackers to “near zero,” according to Hicks. That’s because it’s a private cellular connection instead of an open Wi-Fi network. “You’re not sharing that connection with everyone else in the airport,” Breyault said. “Your data will be much safer in transit.”

If that’s not available, experts recommend using a device with a “virtual private network” or VPN, which is an encrypted connection that offers an additional layer of security. Hicks’ best advice is to buy one from a reputable, U.S.-based company.

Travelers should ultimately avoid logging into financial, email, social media, or other sensitive accounts over airport Wi-Fi, Breyault noted. “If you’re just checking the weather, that’s one thing,” Breyault said. “If you’re checking your bank account balance, that’s something different.”

“Anything you do on airport Wi-Fi should be something you’d be comfortable with the rest of the world knowing about,” he said.”

Be well.

Photo from ten years ago today, July 5, 2015:

Viking Mekong Itinerary, Current Position, Ship Review | CruiseMapper
We booked the Viking Mekong, the river cruise, to tour Vietnam and Cambodia in 2017. For more, please click here.