Day #235 in lockdown in Mumbai, India hotel…Friday the 13th on this awful year, 2020…Indian superstitions…

Tom, standing at the beach enjoying the early evening sky and the sea.

Today’s photos are from this date while staying in a condo overlooking Maalaea Beach, Maui, Hawaii, in 2014. For the story and more photos from this date, please click here.

We’ve never been particularly superstitious. Friday the 13th has never been a date that caused us any concern, although many worldwide have cultural superstitions and fears eliciting certain practices and customs. In the US, there are several common superstitions, such as walking under a ladder; crossing the path of a black cat; spilling salt; a hat on the bed; breaking a mirror; knocking on wood; finding a penny for good luck, and making a wish using a wishbone (from poultry) and of course, Friday the 13th.

Across the bay, it’s still Maui based on the island’s shape.

Superstitions may be different in other cultures, with many of significance and freely observed by many Indian people. They include, from this site:

“Hanging lemon and seven green chilies
India believes that ‘Alakshmi,’ the goddess of misfortune, can bring bad luck to the shop owners or businesses. Since she likes sour, pungent, and hot things, shop owners in India hang lemon and seven green chilies on their door so that the goddess eat her favorite food, satisfy her hunger and leave without entering the shop.

If a black cat crosses your path, it’s a bad omen.
Just because they are black cats? Not just in India, but this is a popular belief in the west too. The origin of this superstition came from the Egyptians, who believed that black cats were evil creatures and they brought bad luck. In India, black colour is generally associated with Lord Shani. It is said that if a black cat crosses your path, then you should let somebody else pass before you do. This way, the first person will have all the bad luck, and you won’t.

Breaking mirror brings bad luck.
It is said that in earlier times, mirror used to be very expensive but brittle. To avoid negligence, the ancient people from Rome started preaching that breaking mirrors would bring you seven years of bad luck. Why seven years? This is because Romans believe that it takes seven years for life to renew itself. So, the image of a person, who does not have good health, will break the mirror, and after seven years, his life will renew itself, and he’ll be in good health.

Hawaii is a treasure trove of exquisite vegetation.

Twitching of the eye is inauspicious.
The superstition is different in different cultures. It is considered good luck in some cultures and wrong in some others. It differs according to gender as well. Since it is related to the eyes, there are many scientific reasons behind the twitching of the eyes. Eye twitching could be due to stress, alcohol, tiredness, allergies, strain, or just dry eyes.

Removing evil eye (Nazar Utaarna)
Putting a little dot of kohl on the side of a child’s forehead is very common in India. The practice is called Nazar Utaarna. It is done to protect the little kid from any evil eyes and prevent anyone from putting a negative vibe over the kid. The evil eye can cause severe damage to whom it turns. It is said that putting a black spot on a child’s forehead will make the child look ugly to the evil powers, and hence, the kid will stay protected.

Adding one rupee to a gift sum
At weddings and special occasions, we Indians generally like to gift money, and it won’t be 100 or 1,000 but 101 or 1,001. We add one rupee coin to the entire sum. It is considered a blessing, love, and luck. But, the main reason to add that extra coin is to make the whole sum an odd number, and it will be indivisible. It is suitable for the married couple. If we don’t add one rupee coin, the sum will end in a zero, which means ‘the end.’

This almost looks like a scene from New England by the sea.

Do not sweep after sunset.
Goddess Lakshmi will walk out of your house if you sweep your place after sunset. In a country where we pray to goddess Lakshmi to bestow wealth on us, any idea that leads to her walking out is considered inauspicious. Why sunset? This is because it is believed that the goddess generally pays a visit after sunset, so if you sweep your place after sunset, she won’t come in.

Don’t go near a Peepal tree in the night
Peepal is one tree the ghosts like to hover around, and if you sleep around a peepal tree at night, the ghosts will kill you. Do you know that plants and living beings keep a balance in nature? In the morning, when the photosynthesis is occurring in them, they absorb carbon dioxide, change it into energy and give out oxygen in the air we breathe in. Still, in the night, the opposite reaction occurs. At night, plants exhale carbon dioxide while there is a lack of sunlight. Animals sleep under trees all the time. Why don’t we see all of them dead next morning?”

A pretty tropical flower.

This list could go on and on with more obscure superstitions observed by those who tend to find strong belief in these age-old practices, some making logical sense and others not so much.

While we toured India many months ago, we observed and participated in many customs that were not necessarily superstitions, as explained here:

“By superstition, we generally mean a belief in supernatural causes, beliefs that link events together without proof or reason, especially when these ideas are conventional outside thought. A black cat walks in front of you – it means bad luck – that is a typical superstition. Walking down the aisle – that is a custom.”

At around 5:30 pm, Tom spotted this rainbow. It hadn’t rained.

Tomorrow, we’ll share the “customs” we observed as tourists in India with suggestions for those with plans to visit India in the future.

Tom just mentioned that in 2020 there were two Friday the 13ths. The other was on March 13th, the day we stopped touring India, when the cruise we’d booked from Mumbai beginning on April 3, 2020, was canceled on March 12th.  Go figure.

Photo from one year ago today, November 13, 2019:

On this date, it was snowing in Minneapolis and the suburbs, and the roads were slippery. For more, please click here.

Culture, fun facts, odd facts and superstitions in Costa Rica… on Friday, the 13th…More historical photos…

In Costa Rica…could this be one of the first Foosball/football/soccer games?

 “Sightings from the Veranda in Costa Rica”

Another little bird was lost when hitting the glass wall on the veranda.  There are Audubon Society approved stickers on the glass but still, birds still fly into the glass, some of which recover and others which do not, such as this.  It’s always heartbreaking for us to see this happen.

Each country has its own superstitions along with those of various cultures and religious affiliations which ultimately influence the country as a whole.  Many include today’s date, Friday the 13th, as being a day of considerable risk and superstition. 


Here’s an interesting article dated today from Live Science that delves into the when and how this superstition was created.  Please click here for the story from this popular publication.

Mortar and pestle.

As we spend our remaining 40 days in Central America, we embarked on research to discover traditions, peculiarities, customs, and superstitions typical for the “Ticos” (native people of Costa Rica) and stumbled across this excellent collection of items we’d like to share with you today.

Here they are, thanks to this site:

Fun, Goofy, & Weird Stuff about Costa Rica

In any website like this, there are bound to be a bunch of silly, maybe irrelevant, but often interesting tidbits that simply do not fit well under another location… so here are the Odds and Ends.  Little known, but true… and generally useless… facts about Costa Rica!  If you live here… you probably have your own!  Send them to me and I’ll add them.

In absolutely no particular order….

  1. In Costa Rica, it is not uncommon to give coffee to babies (in their bottle, with milk) and to young children.  I found this astonishing!  Having had the “pleasure” of a two-year-old a few times in my life, I simply could not imagine a two-year-old on espresso!
  2. MANY Costa Ricans use their credit cards for everything. What do I mean by everything? Well… a newspaper, a candy bar, a pack of gum, etc. I mean things as low as just pennies in cost! It is truly bizarre to be in line behind a Tico and watch him whip out his card to make an eighteen cent purchase.
  3. MacDonald’s, Burger King and all the others have HOME DELIVERY in Costa Rica!  This is not a good thing if you are on a diet.
  4. Ticos are short-statured people in general. Therefore, chairs, couches etc are built about 6-8 inches (sometimes more) lower than furniture say from the USA. If you are tall, you will find that the act of just getting up is an effort. If you have a…ummm… a weight issue as does this writer, it is handy to have a helper nearby!
  5. Cigarettes are only about $1.65 per pack.  Another thing to place under the ‘not good’ category.
  6. Naming conventions are very different here.  Children take their father’s name but add their mother’s maiden name to their full name.  So when you see a name on a business card like Carlos Jose Gomez Guzman, this person name is Carlos Gomez and the Guzman is his mom’s maiden name.  Often this is abbreviated as an initial thus: Carlos Jose Gomez G. or even more commonly, Carlos Gomez G.

    Costa Rican women do not take their husband’s last name.  The woman uses her full maiden name for life.  No changing of national ID cards, drivers licenses, etc.  She also adds her mother’s maiden name.

    Rarely now, women WILL use the old Spanish naming convention and add a  “de ” and her husband’s name.  Thus, Maria Gomez when she marries Carlos de la Torre, will become  Maria Gomez de La Torre.

    This system does not work well with most North American names, especially ethnic names and would be as dumb as all that hyphenating malarkey in the USA. Imagine Doris Kaspinski de Czezniekevich?

  7. If you should die while here, you are buried here on the same day you die… no embalming… nada.  They just plant you!   Everyone looks to see your obituary on TV several times per day!  (This can occur easily if you buy the cheap cigarettes and have your Big Macs sent to the home!).  More info click here.
  8. There are few street signs in Costa Rica and even fewer addresses.  Read that as almost none.  Just about all addresses are in terms of a well-known building or landmark; often the local Catholic Church, cemetery, or another fixed location.  But just to keep things interesting, some addresses are phrased in terms of building that may have burned down 20 years ago!  Also, when you see an address that says 200M west of something, that normally means 2 blocks and NOT a true 200 meters. Now is a good time to read about driving in Costa Rica.
  9. Diet Pepsi here tastes better than Diet Coke.
  10. Instead of saying “my other half”,  Ticos often refer to their significant other as their “media naranja” or the other half of their orange.
  11. Many (honey) bees in Costa Rica are of the Africanized variety i.e. killer bees.   The older species were bred out years ago.
  12. Tangerines are called mandarins (mandarines) here. Limes are limónes.  And you can’t buy lemons here… or at least I have never seen them.  So, if you want a lime, ask for a limón (lee-moan).
  13. Candy and cookies manufactured here are to Tico tastes and have a LOT less sugar (and maybe fat) and thus a lot less flavor.  If you have a sweet tooth, it can still be satiated as nearly all the popular candy from the US (I am a Snickers freak), is available.  However, if you’re a cookie lover, your pretty well outta luck.  Not much available except Oreos and a handful of others.

    Also, non-sugary drink mixes like Crystal Light is not available, so if the Crystal Light folks read this, I would like Lemonade, Grapefruit, Orange, and Citrus Splash, please!

  14. Locks (houses, gates, etc.) in Costa Rica almost always work (turn) backward.
  15. We say in English “She had a baby” or “She gave birth”, but in Spanish, it’s, “Ella dio a luz” or translated, “She gave light.” Perhaps more accurately, “She gave light to her baby” indicating that she brought the baby from the darkness of the womb to the light of day.
  16. Want another one? Bienes raices is the word for Real Estate. Bienes means property or possessions and raices means roots. So there you have “property roots!”. Gives meaning to the expression “laying down roots”.
  17. Front doors of almost all commercial establishments almost always open INWARDS. This is against every fire code in the USA, but here, perhaps because they have never had a tragedy in which hundreds died because the door could not be opened outwards, there is no such code. As you have become “programmed” to Pull when entering and Push when leaving, plan to feel silly as you tug or push in the wrong direction.
  18. If you go to the immigration office for any reason or to the police station for fingerprinting (as part of your residency), do NOT wear shorts!  They will turn you away!  Shorts are considered disrespectful. Update 2009! Read This
  19. There are Bullfights in Costa Rica, but the bull is never hurt and often, the bull wins!  I love payback!  Read more here.
  20. Milk, eggs, and many other items that you have been trained all your life to refrigerate are available off the shelf (un-refrigerated) at almost every supermarket.  This, of course, flies in the face of everything you have learned about storing these products, but I have bought them every week for the past four years and I have never been sick, nor has anyone I have ever met. Go figure.
  21. The word for HOT, in Spanish, is caliente.  Caliente begins with a “C”.  Water faucets imported from the USA almost all have a “C” on them.  If your Hot Water never seems to get HOT in Costa Rica, try the handle with the  “C”.  Note, this may change from bathroom to bathroom within the same house!
  22. Ants are everywhere here, and they outnumber us about a zillion to one.  You will have two real choices as I see it!  Spend about all of your entire life trying to kill them all… or just realize they will be part of your diet while living here!  The tiny ones are flavorless, and probably add a tiny bit of protein to the diet!  The bigger one’s crunch.
  23. You will see a LOT of folks carrying machetes… those really long, sharp knives.  You see this especially in the country and areas away from San José.  The machete is the Costa Rican equivalent of Duct Tape.  It is used for everything, but almost never as a weapon… so relax!!
  24. Chinese food tastes funny in Costa Rica.  Not BAAAAD… just funny!  I am also not hungry an hour after I eat Chinese food here.
  25. Burger Kings here taste just like Burger Kings in the US.  MacDonald’s do not.  Colonel Sanders is better here. So is Diet Coke.
  26. Generally, meat is kinda crummy here.  Just not enough fat cows.  Thankfully, the Peruvians and the Brazilians have arrived to open restaurants where you can get a good piece of meat.
  27. Costa Rica is smart enough NOT to export all the good coffee!  This is meaningful if you have ever lived in Idaho and wanted a good baked potato.
  28. In many countries, pedestrians have rights.  Drivers must yield to them or suffer the consequences.  In Costa Rica, the Spanish word for a pedestrian is “Target”.  Be real careful when walking around… especially in San José and especially at street corners.
  29. At 7 AM every morning, most if not all Costa Rica radio stations broadcast the exact same program.  It begins with the Costa Rican National Anthem and provides the government and other authorized entities a way to send messages or information nationwide.
  30. The meter in a taxicab is known as the Maria… apparently a loose reference to the Virgin Mary and her presumed honesty.
  31. We call them Speed bumps!  To Costa Ricans, son muertos…  or in English… “(they are) dead persons”.
  32. I get asked a lot about all the street vendors who wait at the traffic lights to sell you stuff.  Everyone wants to know if this is a rip-off and if the food will kill you.  Well, I buy stuff from those folks all the time… mostly because these folks work their butts off trying to make a living.

    As for buying food, I know a lot of folks that do.   I do not.  Just not sure about the cleanliness of the kitchens used to prepare the stuff.

  33. Nearly all Catholic Churches in Costa Rica face to the WEST.  This is a handy thing to know as if you read #4 above, you know that knowing directions is critical and that many addresses in CR are based on distance and direction from those churches.
  34. Q. What about all those cute kids running around barefoot and begging especially in San José?

    A. Many of them (sadly) are put out on the streets to beg by their parents.  They are pros at giving you the sad eye thing.  Often their shoes are hidden in a nearby bush.  Now saying that some are really desperate.  How do you know?  You don’t.  And now you have a problem!

    My suggestion is to do nothing, but that is really hard for some folks, so if you just HAVE to do something, here is a suggestion to do ONLY if you are in a very public location with many people around. Offer to take them to get something to eat.  NEVER EVER do this when you are in your car or alone.  NEVER touch them in any way.  NEVER let them get into your car as Costa Ricans seem to think all North Americans are here for sex transactions with children, and it would be really easy to get into serious problems if a child gets into your car.

    However, if you are walking, and there is a nearby soda (small restaurant), you can ask if they are hungry, then walk with them to the soda.  The really hungry kids will want to eat.  The pros will not.  They want money. AGAIN! Do not touch them in any way.  Let them order, you pay, then you leave.  If they refuse, just walk away and offer nothing.

    I am SURE someone will disagree with me on this, and with some justification, but I have a tough time as many of them REALLY look like they could use a meal.  Just be real careful!  A LOT of them are drug users even at very tender ages.  The best and safest thing, sadly, is to do nothing.

  35. Q. I see painted designs on some highways and streets.  They look like a big gold or yellow heart with a crack in it.  Sometimes there are hearts with halos.  What are they?

    A. Broken hearts.  These are painted on the road where someone lost their life.  When you approach an intersection or a road that has a bunch of these painted, drive more cautiously.

As for today, our lovely cleaner Isabel is here spending no less than eight hours working both indoors and on the veranda.  Although we’re very tidy and clean up after ourselves, sweeping the floor, doing our own laundry and dishes and leaving no clutter behind, there’s lots of dust and insect residue typical for this part of the world.

Some type of washing machine?

When she enters the house each week we both jump up to hug her with a mix of English and Spanish gibberish we can all manage.  Her sweet smelling perfume permeates the air for hours after she’s left reminding us of her, along with the fine cleaning job she does in eight hours of backbreaking work.

Handmade masks for Halloween and other festivities.

We’re so grateful to have her services once each week which is included in our monthly rent, along with Ulysses’s meticulous lawn and grounds care and  Balfour, the delightful Tuesday pool guy who always smiles and warmly greets us.  None of these fine locals speak English but somehow we manage to communicate.

Could this have been a copy or printing machine?

These past two gloriously sunny days (it rains later in the afternoon) we spent hours in the pool and hope to so do again today.  It’s such a good time for both of us while we’ll chatter endlessly reliving stories of our lives before we knew one another after we met and over this past almost five years of world travel. 

More Costa Rica masks.

We’re also grateful and continue to be humbled by our lives together and the world around us, its cultures, it’s beliefs and even its superstitions.  Today, we expect another relatively uneventful day interspersed with bird sightings and gentle musings with our Spanish speaking helpers.

May your Friday the 13th be pleasant and relatively uneventful.


Photo from one year ago today, October 13, 2016:

In Bali, from the veranda, a muddy white horse was getting a bath in the river.  For more photos, please click here.