Sometimes, a booking just doesn’t work out…

Candy in  NZ and Australia is called “lollie.” This Lollie Cake Slice looks good. For more photos, please click here.

Out and about…More new photos…Facts about Penguin, Tasmania…

“The river that flows through Hiscutt Park in Penguin, Tasmania, is Penguin Creek. It is a central feature of the park, which is known for its iconic Dutch Windmill, mature trees, playground, and picnic areas. A weir on the creek creates a scenic pond area within the park grounds.”

“Penguin is a charming, small seaside town on the northwest coast of Tasmania, located between Burnie and Ulverstone on the Bass Highway. Known for its quirky, affectionate embrace of its name, the town features numerous penguin-themed decorations, including rubbish bins and street signs.

Key Downtown & Area Attractions
  • The Big Penguin: A 10-foot (3-metre) tall ferro-cement statue, erected in 1975 to mark the town’s centenary, located in the town centre opposite the post office.
  • Penguin Market: Tasmania’s largest covered market, held on Sundays, featuring over 200 vendors selling local food, wine, and crafts.
  • Penguin Foreshore: A well-maintained, scenic walking and cycling track that stretches along the coastline, connecting the town to Preservation Bay.
  • Hiscutt Park: Located near the town centre, this park features a replica Dutch windmill.
  • The “Tardis”: An old police box in the town centre used as a community book exchange.
  • Penguin General Cemetery: A historic, clifftop cemetery offering scenic views.
  • The sign on the street near our vacation home, states,” Slow, Caution, Horses Using Road.”

Dining & Services
  • Main Street (Main Road) is right on the coast and features cafes, bakeries, a hotel, and the Penguin Beer Co.
  • The town is known for its “Pink Up Your Town” initiative, where businesses decorate in pink for breast cancer awareness.
Nature & Wildlife
  • Fairy Penguins: Little penguins (Fairy Penguins) can be seen returning to the local beaches at dusk between November and March.
  • Dial Range: The town is nestled at the base of the Dial Range, offering numerous walking and mountain biking trails, including the Penguin Mountain Bike Park.
  • “Hiscutt Park is a beloved community hub in Penguin, offering a range of recreational amenities for all ages to enjoy. It’s known for its iconic Windmill and features a quaint river throughout the park, where you will find ducks playing. and playgrounds to barbecue areas and picnic shelters, there’s something for everyone to appreciate. The park’s well-maintained grounds and scenic surroundings along the river make it a popular choice for gatherings, events, and leisure activities. Whether you’re seeking an afternoon of outdoor fun or a peaceful retreat in nature, Hiscutt Park welcomes visitors with open arms.”

History
  • Founded in 1861, the town was originally a timber and mining hub.
  • It was named after the fairy penguin rookeries along the coast.
  • The town recently celebrated its 150th anniversary with a “Great Penguin Waddle”.

Ten years can soften memories in ways we rarely notice, and as we made our way toward Penguin, Tasmania, Tom quietly admitted he was worried. He wondered if perhaps time had polished the town too brightly in his mind, setting him up for disappointment that travelers know all too well. I understood exactly what he meant. When a place has held a warm corner in your heart for so long, returning can feel a bit like holding your breath.

There is a creek beyond these tall grasses.

Yesterday afternoon, we slowly drove through the familiar little streets, the kind that seem to hum gently with simple, everyday life. We stopped at several locations to take a few photos and later wandered into the grocery store, feeling at ease and familiar with this sweet seaside town. As we drove along, I turned to Tom and asked if Penguin had lived up to what he remembered from ten years ago.

He did not hesitate for even a second.

With an easy smile, he said it was exactly as he remembered and that he liked it just as much, if not more. In that moment, I felt the same quiet relief settle over me, too.

The lovely woman at the checkout counter remembered us from last week and made us feel included and welcome in her special town. Yes, we still love it here.

Be well.

Photos from ten years ago today, February 22, 2016:

The unique, architecturally interesting Te Kewa Kewa Bridge in New Zealand. For more photos, please click here.

It was a lovely birthday celebration…

The restaurant where we dined last night is located in this hotel.

Last night, on my 78th birthday, Tom and I headed to the popular local pub tucked inside the Neptune Grand Hotel. After days of quiet routines and home-cooked meals, it felt wonderful to be out and about, stepping into the gentle hum of conversation and clinking glasses that only a well-loved local spot seems to carry.

We settled ourselves at the bar, always our favorite place to begin an evening. There is something comforting about sitting shoulder to shoulder with locals who clearly consider this their regular haunt. Before long, we found ourselves commiserating in that easy, friendly way that happens in small towns. A few laughs were shared, a few stories exchanged, and for a little while, we soaked in the pleasure of being among people while marking another birthday along this winding road of life.

After a few drinks, we meandered into the main dining room for dinner. The room itself has a pleasant, relaxed ambiance. Nothing pretentious, nothing overly formal. Just comfortable lighting, well-spaced tables, and the soft murmur of fellow diners enjoying their evening. It suited us perfectly.

This was my shrimp dinner: prawns in a gluten-free sauce with a side salad.

There were only a few menu options that worked well with my way of eating, which is always a challenge when dining out. Still, I found myself drawn to the dish shown here. It arrived nicely presented and, I must say, it was quite tasty. The flavors were good, and the preparation was clearly thoughtful. But in the end, it simply was not very filling. Those of you who follow along with our low-carb lifestyle will understand how sometimes a dish can check all the right boxes and still leave you wishing for just a bit more substance.

Even so, we enjoyed the experience. Sometimes it is less about the plate in front of you and more about the moment you are living.

One of the highlights of the evening was when our friend and future landlord, Terry, stopped by to wish me a happy birthday. That simple gesture meant a great deal to me. Terry and his wife have already shown themselves to be such a warm and wonderful couple, the kind of people who make you feel immediately at ease in a new place. In just a week from tomorrow, we will be moving into their holiday home across the street from the beach, and I must admit we are very much looking forward to that next chapter.

When we returned to the house after dinner, both of us were still a little hungry. No surprise there. So we did what has become our reliable little ritual. We each cut a generous hunk of aged cheddar cheese and enjoyed it quietly at home. Simple, satisfying, and exactly what was needed to hit the spot before calling it a night.

Tom’s chicken parmesan dinner with chips and salad. In many parts of the world, French fries are called “chips.”

Our landlord here in this temporary house, Karen, is also a lovely local. We have been fortunate once again to land among kind and accommodating people. It never ceases to amaze me how often that happens in this nomadic life of ours. Here’s the link to Karen’s property, which we are currently renting.

This morning we were back in our comfortable routine. We prepared the Keto Hamburger Scramble for tonight’s dinner and already have it fully cooked, waiting in the refrigerator. This evening will be easy. We will simply heat our potions in the microwave and serve them alongside a large fresh salad. After last night’s lighter restaurant meal, that hearty scramble is sounding especially appealing.

Soon we will head off to Henk’s market to pick up a variety of ingredients for meals we plan to make here during this final stretch before our move. We are trying to be mindful not to overstock. Moving food from one place to another is never high on our list of favorite activities. Fortunately, the new house is delightfully close, a two-minute drive, to the market, which will make future shopping both easy and pleasant. It’s only been a 10-minute drive to Henk’s IGA market in Penguin from this property.

And just like that, another birthday has gently come and gone. No big fuss, no elaborate celebration. Just good company, kind people, and the quiet contentment that continues to follow us wherever we land.

That is it for today, folks. Have a lovely day and be well.

Photo from ten years ago today, February 21, 2016:

This colt in New Plymouth, New Zealand, was too shy to approach us. For more photos, please click here.

We lucked out!…What a relief!…Today is my 78th birthday in Australia…It’s tomorrow in the USA!…More new photos…

A lovely spot to savor the exquisite little beach town.

Yesterday, although we weren’t particularly optimistic, we headed out to the local pharmacy with a mission in mind. With our April cruise steadily approaching and memories still fresh from the last time we each battled three strains of flu on that 47-night voyage, we knew we didn’t want to take chances. Not at our age. Not with my cardiovascular disease and Tom’s pulmonary fibrosis. So, despite the uncertainty, we decided it was worth trying to secure Tamiflu in advance.

When we booked the 11:00 am appointments with the nurse practitioner at the pharmacy, the receptionist was very clear. The consultation would cost US $85.08 (AUD $120.56) for both of us, and there was no guarantee we’d walk away with prescriptions. Even if the medication couldn’t be prescribed, we would still be responsible for the appointment fee. It was one of those moments in travel life where you weigh risk versus peace of mind. We exchanged glances, took a breath, and booked it anyway.

Sitting in the waiting area, I’ll admit I kept my expectations low. We’ve learned over the years that healthcare systems abroad can have their own rhythms, rules, and occasional roadblocks. When we explained our medical conditions and why we wanted Tamiflu on hand for the cruise, the nurse practitioner listened carefully and seemed to understand our concern. That alone was reassuring.

The stunning view of the Bass Strait from downtown Penguin.

But then came the hiccup.

When he tried entering our information into the system, it wouldn’t accept us without an Australian Medicare ID. Of course, one of those technical barriers that can stop everything in its tracks. For a few minutes, it looked like we might have paid the consultation fee only to walk out empty-handed.

To his credit, the nurse practitioner didn’t give up. He stepped away and called his supervisor to see if there was any workaround. Those next fifteen minutes felt much longer than they probably were. We sat quietly, trying not to get our hopes up while also silently willing the universe to cooperate.

We have always loved seeing these perfectly shaped evergreen trees.

Finally, he reappeared in the waiting area with the words we were so hoping to hear. They had figured it out.

He was able to process our information and prescribe two rounds of Tamiflu for each of us. The wave of relief that washed over us in that moment was enormous. After everything we went through on the last cruise, having this medication in hand feels less like a luxury and more like a necessity.

We had hoped to receive three courses each, but in the end, we were happy with the two rounds per person. Not perfect, but certainly workable. The pharmacy filled one box of ten tablets each, one treatment round for each of us. The cost came to US $156.00 (AUD $220.92) for the medication itself. We can return in a few weeks for the second box each, when they approved one refill each.

Penguin trash bins.

When we added the consultation fees, our total out-of-pocket expense for the two boxes each, the total was US$ 241.08 (AUD$341.44).

Was it cheap? No.

Was it worth it? Absolutely.

Based on experience, if we were forced to obtain Tamiflu on board the ship, including the medical visit and marked-up medication, we’d likely be looking at about US $700 to AUD $991.40 per person. By taking care of it here in Penguin, we saved a substantial amount and, perhaps more importantly, gave ourselves a sense of preparedness that money really can’t buy.

We’re calling this a win and are very glad to have this task behind us.

On March 1, we’ll be moving to Terry and Fran’s holiday home, the same house we rented ten years ago, Sunrise at Penguin. We’re enjoying the beautiful temporary holiday home in the interim while we wait to move.

Today marks my 78th birthday. This afternoon, around 4:30, we’ll make our way back to the Neptune Grand Hotel for happy hour at the bar, followed by dinner in the restaurant, the same lovely spot where we dined with Terry and Fran last week. As it turns out, the lovely restaurant offers a complimentary birthday dinner, which feels like a sweet little bonus and perfect timing for our planned return.

If yesterday was about peace of mind, today will be about celebration, gratitude, and quietly appreciating another year of this remarkable nomadic life.

No doubt, it will be a good day.

Be well.

Photo from ten years ago today, February 20, 2016:

Denise, our server, fired up Tom’s Steak Diane Flambé using Pernod and white wine while I took this shot. For more photos, please click here.

Our tax prep is done!..It’s great to have that behind us…More new photos…

Penguin statues are everywhere in town.

Every year, no matter where we are in the world, whether tucked into a quiet countryside cottage or perched near a windswept sea, there comes a stretch of days that feels decidedly less romantic than our usual nomadic lifestyle. Tax time. Even as residents of the income tax-friendly state of Nevada, the process of preparing our federal return is anything but simple.

People often assume that because Nevada doesn’t impose a state income tax, our lives must be easier when April rolls around. And yes, in one sense, that’s true. We are spared the extra layer of state filings that so many Americans navigate each year. But as small business owners, federal tax preparation is a laborious, detail-driven endeavor that requires patience, organization, and more than a little perseverance.

It’s not as simple as logging into an online app, answering a few prompts, and clicking submit. Our financial lives are layered with business income, expenses, retirement distributions, digital documents, and mailed forms scattered across systems and time zones. Add to that the reality of long-term travel, and the process takes on a life of its own.

A portion of the shoreline in town.

All of our physical tax documents are sent to our mailing service in Nevada. From there, nothing is automatic. Instead of having the mail forwarded to wherever we happen to be in the world, we request that the service open and scan each piece. That alone can feel like a full-time job. One by one, we review every envelope digitally: Is this relevant? Is it junk? Is it a 1099? A year-end summary? Is there anything that must be physically forwarded to our accountant?

Each request requires attention. Open. Scan. Review. Forward. It sounds simple, but when you’re dealing with a year’s worth of financial correspondence, it becomes a meticulous sorting exercise. I find myself double-checking amounts, matching names, and ensuring nothing slips through unnoticed. There’s something about tax documents that makes me extra cautious, perhaps because once they’re in the mail to our accountant, we trust that everything necessary is there.

Alongside the mailed forms are the digital ones, those 1099-type documents that arrive by email instead of in an envelope. I save each carefully, label it clearly, and add it to our growing electronic tax folder. Then comes the spreadsheet. Every year, I prepare a detailed list of deductible business expenses. Travel-related costs, website fees, software subscriptions, professional services, each line entered methodically, totals calculated, categories organized. It’s not glamorous work, but there’s a quiet satisfaction in seeing the numbers align, knowing we’ve been diligent.

The center of town on a busy morning. It’s summer here, and Penguin is busy with tourists’ dining and shopping.

This year carried one additional layer of complexity. Based on Tom’s age, 73, he was required to file an RMD (Required Minimum Distribution). An RMD is the minimum amount the IRS requires you to withdraw annually from tax-deferred retirement accounts such as 401(k)s and traditional IRAs once you reach the mandated age. These withdrawals are taxed as ordinary income and exist to ensure that retirement savings don’t remain sheltered from taxation indefinitely.

Even though the rule technically begins at age 73 under current law, timing nuances and account specifics meant careful attention on our part this year. It’s one more moving piece in a financial puzzle that grows more intricate with each passing season of life.

When I step back, I realize that preparing our taxes mirrors much of our nomadic existence. It requires adaptability, organization, and a willingness to face administrative realities even when we’d rather be out exploring a new coastal trail or discovering a charming local café. There’s a grounding effect to it, too. Taxes are a tether to the US, to citizenship, to responsibility. No matter how far we roam, that connection remains.

A penguin receptacle with plastic bags for dog waste.

Yesterday, after hours of reviewing, organizing, scanning, and compiling, we finally completed the process. The envelope of essential documents is on its way from our mailing service, by good old-fashioned snail mail, to our accountant. Once he receives everything, he’ll electronically file our federal return. One thing we’ve learned over the years is the value of timing. By sending him our information in February, we avoid the April rush, when many of his clients are scrambling to request last-minute appointments or file extensions.

Typically, he completes our return within a matter of days. That efficiency feels like a reward for our early diligence.

A lone seagull by the sea.

More than anything, finishing early gives us peace of mind. There’s a lightness that settles in once the paperwork is out of our hands. We can return to our daily routines without that lingering sense of unfinished business hanging over us.

In a life defined by movement and change, there’s comfort in closing a loop. Taxes may not be exciting, but completing them reminds us that, even as long-term travelers, we remain steady, responsible stewards of our finances. And once it’s done, we breathe a little easier, grateful to move forward into the year untethered by forms, spreadsheets, and scanned documents.

This is the railroad depot in town.

At 11:00 am this morning, we have an appointment with a nurse practitioner in downtown Penguin to request prescriptions for Tamiflu in preparation for our upcoming April cruise. On that unforgettable 47-night voyage last year, aboard the very same ship, we each managed to catch not one, but three strains of the flu. Lesson learned. While we can’t control crowded decks or circulating viruses, having Tamiflu on hand gives us a sense of preparedness. Neither of us cares to go through that again!

After the appointment, we have to stop at the market for salad vegetables and a few odds and ends.

Be well.

Photo from ten years ago today, February 19, 2016:

In New Zealand, in 2016, there I am with my namesake, Miss Jessica, when she’s only a week old. Our landlords named this cria, a baby alpaca, after me as a birthday gift when Tom and I were with her mom at birth, when the owners were away on holiday. For more photos and the rest of this story, please click here.

All new photos with more to follow…Penguin, Tasmania demographics…

Penguin Uniting Church in Penguin, Tasmania, is a charming heritage-listed timber church overlooking Bass Strait on Main Road. Opened in 1903 as a Methodist church, it is built in Federation Carpenter Gothic style, with steeply pitched roofs, decorative timberwork, and distinctive windows. Now part of the Uniting Church in Australia, it remains an active, welcoming congregation serving the local community. Its picturesque coastal setting and historic character make it one of Penguin’s most recognisable landmarks.

The People of Penguin — A Coastal Tapestry

There’s something quietly profound about a town like Penguin, Tasmania, a place whose name conjures images of little blue penguins bobbing on Bass Strait, but whose real identity is shaped by the people who live there, the gentle pace of their lives, and the contours of community woven through generations.

At the time of the 2021 Australian Census, Penguin had a population of about 4,132 people, up from around 3,800 in the previous census, a steady but modest growth that speaks to its appeal as both home and haven.

Beautiful farm’s crops are typical in Tasmania.

Age and Life Stages

Walking down the streets of Penguin, you’d notice that time feels a little gentler here. The median age is around 47 years, which is older than the national Australian median of 38. That tells you something right away: this is a place where people settle longer, grow roots, watch seasons pass, and choose rhythm over rush.

Older adults, from retirees quietly enjoying the seaside breeze to folks in their 50s and 60s, remain active in community life. Meanwhile, children and young adults exist, but they don’t define the town’s profile the way they might in a university city or bustling suburb.

In essence, if Hobart or Launceston feels like the energetic heartbeats of Tasmania, Penguin feels like a slower, steadier breath, a place where age and experience shape the pulse of daily life.

A horse-shaped topiary next to a barn.

Gender and Community

Like most small towns, Penguin’s gender balance hovers near even, with about 48–52% male to female, a familiar symmetry in human terms. It’s the sort of place where neighbours know each other’s names and generations mingle on the footpaths.

Households and Home

Penguin has roughly 1,863 private dwellings, and most households average 2.3 people, indicating this is not predominantly a town of large families. The picture here leans toward couples, perhaps with adult children who’ve flown the coop, retirees with decades behind them, and individuals at different stages of life choosing calm and connection over the chaos of a city.

What stands out most is the ownership pattern: a solid majority of homes are owner-occupied, and the median weekly household income is around $1,301, which is respectable for a small town and reflects a community focused on stability and sustainability.

This private driveway was lined on both sides by the neatly trimmed evergreens.

Heritage and Identity

Penguin’s demographic story isn’t just about age and income; it’s also about heritage. Indigenous Australians, Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples, make up a meaningful slice of the population (around 8–9%), which is higher than state and national averages. This reflects a deeper, older connection to the land, sea, and sky that predates European settlement, a reminder that every landscape carries memory and meaning far beyond what census tables can capture.

Language and culture here are predominantly English-speaking, as you’d expect in a Tasmanian coastal town, where most people were born in Australia and have strong ties to the land and community.

Work and Lifestyle

It’s tempting to imagine everyone here just watching waves or strolling the beach at sunset, but life has texture. Many residents work in professional occupations, and despite the town’s small size, there’s a quiet economic persona; tradespeople, local businesses, hospitality workers, and those who commute to nearby towns like Ulverstone or Burnie for work.

Income brackets tend to be in the middle range nationally, and mortgage repayments and rents, while more modest than in Australia’s big cities, still reflect a mix of long-time locals and newcomers who’ve chosen this pace of life as their intentional place in the world.

About one minute from the driveway to our holiday home, we spotted two horses on each side of the road. The horse on the left is wearing a face mask to protect her from the sun, insects, and dust.

What the Numbers Feel Like

Numbers on a census report are dry and dutiful, but the essence of Penguin is anything but. There’s the echo of laughter at the local bakery, the deep hum of the wind off Bass Strait, the shared stories at a cafe table overlooking the bay. It’s a town shaped by nature and nurtured by neighbours.

In demographic terms, Penguin is:

  • Mature and grounded, with an older median age.

  • Stable and connected, with most households owning their homes.

  • Culturally anchored, with a notable Indigenous presence and overwhelmingly Australian-born community.

  • Economically balanced, comfortable but not booming, reflective of a coastal town that values quality of life over quick growth.

For us, who travel long and wide, we find Penguin’s demographics tell a story that resonates: a place where life slows but doesn’t stop, where community is more than a data point, and where every resident contributes to the quiet narrative of the place.

Two more horses on the opposite side of the road.

As we did ten years ago when we stayed in Penguin, we still find it to be that rare kind of place that wraps around us the moment we arrive. There’s something about the salty breeze rolling in from Bass Strait, the unhurried greetings along the footpath, and the familiar curve of the coastline that makes us exhale a little deeper. We slip into its quiet pace effortlessly, as if we’d never left. The beauty isn’t loud or showy, just steady and sincere. And somehow, in its quiet charm and gentle pace, we feel not like visitors passing through, but like we belong exactly where we are.

Be well.

Photo from ten years ago today, February 17, 2016:

Beautiful flowers we spotted at Pukekura Park in New Plymouth, New Zealand. For more photos, please click here.

Heading out later today to take photos…

Only this barbed wire fence separates our veranda from this goat and his friend, a sheep. They baaaahhh when they see me, especially when I baaaahhh back at them. Cute.

Gosh, we are enjoying it here in Penguin as much as we did ten years ago, if not more.

There’s something magical about waking to the sounds of nature instead of traffic that settles the nervous system in a way that’s hard to describe unless you’ve lived both ways. No sirens. No engines. No muffled bass from passing cars. Just wind brushing through the grass, the distant bleating of sheep, and the low, conversational murmur of goats in the pasture just beyond the house.

Seeing the goats and sheep grazing so close to us adds a sweetness to the day. They go about their business without hurry, without agenda, and somehow that pace seeps into us. Every now and then, a rooster crows as if to remind everyone that time is still moving forward, even here. The air is cool and clean, blissfully free of smog, and when I step outside for a deep breath, I can actually feel the difference in my lungs.

The sun is finally peeking through the overcast sky this morning, little shards of light slipping through the gray. It feels like a gift. After we finish a few household tasks and I wrap up this post, we’ll head out for a drive. We want to take photos while the sun is shining, stop at the pharmacy, and pop into the little market for a few odds and ends. These simple errands feel pleasant here, almost leisurely.

Downtown Penguin truly is a delight.

The quaint streets, the charming little shops, the easy parking, and the absence of crowds make it feel welcoming rather than overwhelming. It’s only about a ten-minute drive from this property, which already feels convenient. But in thirteen days, when we move into Sunrise, we’ll be even closer. Two minutes by car, a ten-minute walk.

And that walk matters to me.

I’ve been working so hard these past two months. Seven days a week of leg strengthening and physical therapy-type exercises. Along with that, I’ve added a somewhat vigorous routine to raise my heart rate. It hasn’t always been easy, especially after everything my body went through.

That 47-night cruise took more out of me than I expected. Three strains of flu back-to-back while on board left me drained in a way that lingered. There were days I wondered how long it would take to feel like myself again. Recovery, I’ve learned, is not linear. Some mornings felt hopeful; others felt like setbacks.

But here, in this peaceful pocket of Tasmania, I can feel the difference. My stamina is improving. My breathing is stronger. My legs feel steadier. The progress is real.

Soon we’ll head to the local clinic to get prescriptions for Tamiflu to take daily during the upcoming 25-night cruise. After what we went through, we’re not taking chances. Being long-term nomads has taught us many lessons, and one of them is this: preparation brings peace of mind. It’s not about expecting the worst; it’s about knowing you’re ready if something unexpected happens.

For now, though, we’re choosing to stay right here in this moment.

The goats grazing.
The roosters crowing.
The cool air brushing against our skin.
The promise of a sunny afternoon in a town that feels like it’s quietly rooting for us.

In thirteen days, we’ll be even closer to the heart of Penguin. Closer to that walk I hope to make confidently. Closer to the sea, the salty air drifts through town. Closer to another chapter in this wandering life of ours.

And today, that feels like more than enough.

Be well.

Photo from ten years ago today, February 16, 2016:

Our favorite photo of the day was taken when we visited Mount Taranaki in New Zealand. Zoom in to see this bee’s facial features. Amazing! For more photos, please click here.

Happy Valentine’s Day to everyone in the western hemisphere…The eastern hemisphere celebrated yesterday…

Happy Valentine’s Day to our worldwide family and friends! May love fill your hearts wherever you may be.

It makes no sense for us to make a fuss over holidays anymore. Before we left the US 13 years ago, we let go of the heart-shaped cake pans and all the decorations we used for various holidays: Halloween, Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Year’s Eve,  Valentine’s Day, July 4, with hundreds of small flags to line the shoreline at our lakefront house, along with special decorations for birthdays. Those days are long behind us, 13 years later.

Now, our roots move with us.

Birthdays and anniversaries are simpler. We make a reservation. We dress nicely. We sit across from each other at a small table in a local restaurant and raise a glass. Next Friday will be my birthday, and we’ve done exactly that, booked a table for two. No grand gestures. No elaborate surprises. Just us. And honestly, that has become more than enough.

Valentine’s Day has quietly slipped into the background. No cards. No flowers. No gifts. No cake, carefully frosted and decorated to celebrate the occasion. At first, I wondered if I’d miss it. After all, tradition has a way of wrapping itself around your heart. But here’s the curious thing: when every day is filled with shared discovery, shared problem-solving, shared wonder, what exactly are you commemorating on February 14?

We celebrate constantly.

We celebrate when we arrive safely after a long travel day. We celebrate when we discover a perfect little café tucked down a side street. We celebrate when we sit on a veranda watching the sky change colors, grateful that this nomadic life still fits us. We celebrate resilience when plans shift unexpectedly, and kindness carries us through.

Right now, we’re settled for a few precious weeks, and that alone feels like a gift. The holiday home we’re in is newly built, still carrying that new house scent. We are the first tourists to live here, and there’s something quietly special about that. It feels untouched, like a blank page waiting for stories.

Each morning, we wake to the gentle sounds of barnyard life. The animals seem to move at their own unhurried pace, as if they have nowhere urgent to be. There’s comfort in that. A reminder. We sit with our coffee and watch them, sometimes saying nothing at all. Silence between two people who have traveled the world together is not emptiness…it’s ease.

Our meals lately have been homemade, simple, and satisfying. There’s something grounding about cooking in a kitchen that’s not yours yet feels temporarily entrusted to you. I move around the counters, finding my pace with unfamiliar utensils, adjusting to a different oven, and different light through the windows. Tom does the dishes, often without being asked. I cook. These small gestures, repeated over decades, have become our truest form of romance.

We don’t need roses when we have reliability.
We don’t need cards when we have consistency.

Two weeks from today, we’ll move to Sunrise at Penguin. Just writing that makes me smile. The name alone feels hopeful. After the earlier mix-up with dates and the unexpected scramble upon arrival in town, it feels especially meaningful that we’ll soon settle into that home properly. Experiences like that could easily rattle us. But instead, they remind us how adaptable we’ve become.

In the meantime, we’re soaking in these days. The light filters through the wide windows. The quiet hum of rural life. The sense that, for now, we don’t have to pack or rush to an airport. We’ll do that again in April.

Tomorrow afternoon, we plan to wander into Penguin, this quaint and beautiful little town that already feels welcoming. There’s something charming about coastal communities, the steady presence of the sea, the tidy shopfronts, the subtle nods exchanged between locals who recognize each other. We’ll take photos, of course. We always do. It’s our way of preserving moments that otherwise might blur together in this ever-moving life.

I suspect we’ll linger by the water. Perhaps sit on a bench and simply watch. These small towns have a way of inviting you to slow down.

And that, I suppose, is the quiet lesson in all of this.

We no longer measure love by decorations or holidays circled on a calendar. We measure it in shared glances across a restaurant table. In navigating unexpected hiccups without blame. In packing up a life over and over again and choosing, each time, to continue together.

Valentine’s Day may have fallen by the wayside. But love hasn’t.

If anything, it has deepened, simplified, and clarified.

Every single day, in this ever-changing world we inhabit, feels like a celebration already. And neither of us needs anything more than that.

Be well.

Photo from ten years ago today, February 15, 2016:

We hadn’t seen a pinecone in a long time. Photo taken in New Zealand. For more, please click here.

Out to dinner in Penguin…Delightful evening with our upcoming landlords…

Tom enjoyed being out to dinner, especially with the excellent Thursday senior special that included dessert.

There’s something special about the way travel humbles us. On Thursday evening, after what had been one of the more surprising days in our many years of wandering this planet, we found ourselves sitting across the table from Fran and Terry, the very landlords of our upcoming March 1 rental in Penguin.

If you didn’t read yesterday’s post, here it is. It tells the story of our unexpected arrival in town… without a place to stay. A simple mix-up in dates, confirmed long ago, somehow unraveled in real time. And just like that, we were in Penguin with our luggage and no holiday home waiting for us, at least not until March 1. The already homeless couple became homeless even further.

But here’s the beautiful part.

Instead of awkwardness or frustration, there was kindness.

It was hard to believe it had been ten years since we rented from Fran and Terry, a lovely couple.

Instead of blame, there was grace.

Fran and Terry opened their home to us that first night, and within hours, they had helped us secure a lovely interim property, where we’ll happily stay for the next two weeks, until Sunrise at Penguin becomes available on March 1. We are more than fine. In fact, we’re grateful. These little bumps in the road often turn into the stories we cherish most.

Feeling bad about the mix-up, Fran and Terry insisted on taking us out to dinner on Thursday evening. And not just anywhere.

Here’s my Valentine’s Day date, in 2016, smiling as always. For more photos, please click here.